Buy this book for yourself or your partner, 24 Mar 2008
It is such a funny and well written little book. I bought it for my partner as our son was just coming up to one at Xmas. He reads dark horror books (my partner, not the baby ;)and i guessed it would sit on his bookcase until it finally got put out for recycling.... How wrong i was. He read it cover to cover and often read out sections for me to listen to. I bought a couple of other books about 'being grandparents' and they were your typical quotation books with very little substance. This is a fab little book that will actually get read!!! Super

So true!, 05 Oct 2007
I think you have to be a parent to enjoy this book. And when you are one, oh boy, how true this book seems to be. My little boy - 16 months old - is acting and reacting exactly like the baby in the book, as if he read it!! Spooky!
And good to know that we are not alone!
Smooth

wonderful!, 10 Jun 2007
So funny! Makes me laugh and look forward to my small person being 1! you will never be able to look at toilets (Secret Baths) and Holidays (Fewer things in a strange place) in the same way again.

Hilarious!, 31 Dec 2006
I have a six month old baby boy and my mother in law has just given me this book for Christmas. It is totally hilarious and spot on!!! I have been reading bits of it out loud to my husband who doesn't really read 'baby' books and like me he has laughed out loud at the similarities between the baby in the book and our little boy!!! The insight into the way "Hairy" and "Smooth" interact and deal with the various situations thrown at them is genius (and disturbingly similar to our own experiences!) This book would be perfect for any new parent suffering from a sense of humour failure due to exhaustion, or in fact to any one who wants to know exactly what is really going on in the land of the babygro!!!

So *this* is what they're really thinking..., 18 Oct 2006
We have an 11 month old and so far I have read the first 20 or so chapters (some of which are only a page long). Both my wife and I have laughed out loud several times so far, and neither of us would normally do so! (As I said, we have an 11-month old so humour has all but left us).

The book is written from the perspective of an intelligent, insightful and inquisitive 1 year old and is genuinely funny.

Perfect 'on the toilet' reading.

Buy this book for yourself or your partner, 24 Mar 2008
It is such a funny and well written little book. I bought it for my partner as our son was just coming up to one at Xmas. He reads dark horror books (my partner, not the baby ;)and i guessed it would sit on his bookcase until it finally got put out for recycling.... How wrong i was. He read it cover to cover and often read out sections for me to listen to. I bought a couple of other books about 'being grandparents' and they were your typical quotation books with very little substance. This is a fab little book that will actually get read!!! Super

So true!, 05 Oct 2007
I think you have to be a parent to enjoy this book. And when you are one, oh boy, how true this book seems to be. My little boy - 16 months old - is acting and reacting exactly like the baby in the book, as if he read it!! Spooky!
And good to know that we are not alone!
Smooth

wonderful!, 10 Jun 2007
So funny! Makes me laugh and look forward to my small person being 1! you will never be able to look at toilets (Secret Baths) and Holidays (Fewer things in a strange place) in the same way again.

Hilarious!, 31 Dec 2006
I have a six month old baby boy and my mother in law has just given me this book for Christmas. It is totally hilarious and spot on!!! I have been reading bits of it out loud to my husband who doesn't really read 'baby' books and like me he has laughed out loud at the similarities between the baby in the book and our little boy!!! The insight into the way "Hairy" and "Smooth" interact and deal with the various situations thrown at them is genius (and disturbingly similar to our own experiences!) This book would be perfect for any new parent suffering from a sense of humour failure due to exhaustion, or in fact to any one who wants to know exactly what is really going on in the land of the babygro!!!

So *this* is what they're really thinking..., 18 Oct 2006
We have an 11 month old and so far I have read the first 20 or so chapters (some of which are only a page long). Both my wife and I have laughed out loud several times so far, and neither of us would normally do so! (As I said, we have an 11-month old so humour has all but left us).

The book is written from the perspective of an intelligent, insightful and inquisitive 1 year old and is genuinely funny.

Perfect 'on the toilet' reading.

Good designs!, 14 Jun 2007
Doreen has never been a keen box-gardener, so I hoped to stimulate some interest in pruning with this gift. Fortunately, she was open-minded enough to try a few things out and some of the designs were a big success. Frankly, they are vastly superior to anything that Ray Mears' has to offer in his guide to 'Bushcraft'. My only complaint is that I often get completely lost in navigating through her reconstruction of the Hampton Court maze. By the time this foreplay is over and I'm ready for action, she's usually fallen asleep!

Little book, Big laugh!, 14 Dec 2006
As others have said, the 'Little Book Of Minge Topiary' is not for the reserved, easily shocked reader! The book boasts full colour illustrations of various styles for one's 'down-there-hair,' witty titles to match and advice on how to aquire your favoured style!
I purchased one for a light hearted giggle on Christmas day and have just had a flick through prior to wrapping up. Although a very simple idea, this book is really very funny.
I'm going to end up buying one for another female friend, i just know it!

a wonderful creative resource for the "alternative" hairdresser, 17 Aug 2006
I like to be alternative & creative in everyway I look, from top to toe EVERYWHERE! So i was overjoyed when my partners gave me this book as a present as it gave me design idea I had never thought of and gives my partners a lovely surprise now and again - they are wondering what design i will use next! Fantastic resource indeed!

Hirsute humour, 19 Dec 2003
This Little book is quite hilarious but not for the faint-hearted or easily-offended.
Colourfully illustrated, there are all sorts of different ‘her-styles’ on offer, from the ingenious to the ludicrous, so you are bound to find something you like.
There is, thankfully, a section with practical tips on how to maintain one’s topiary (however basic) and, importantly, how to minimise discomfort (that stubble can be a menace).
Boys, be quite sure of your girlfriend’s sense of humour before you give her this book.
Girls, get it for your mates or keep it for yourself and give the love of your life a little surprise!

Buy this book for yourself or your partner, 24 Mar 2008
It is such a funny and well written little book. I bought it for my partner as our son was just coming up to one at Xmas. He reads dark horror books (my partner, not the baby ;)and i guessed it would sit on his bookcase until it finally got put out for recycling.... How wrong i was. He read it cover to cover and often read out sections for me to listen to. I bought a couple of other books about 'being grandparents' and they were your typical quotation books with very little substance. This is a fab little book that will actually get read!!! Super

So true!, 05 Oct 2007
I think you have to be a parent to enjoy this book. And when you are one, oh boy, how true this book seems to be. My little boy - 16 months old - is acting and reacting exactly like the baby in the book, as if he read it!! Spooky!
And good to know that we are not alone!
Smooth

wonderful!, 10 Jun 2007
So funny! Makes me laugh and look forward to my small person being 1! you will never be able to look at toilets (Secret Baths) and Holidays (Fewer things in a strange place) in the same way again.

Hilarious!, 31 Dec 2006
I have a six month old baby boy and my mother in law has just given me this book for Christmas. It is totally hilarious and spot on!!! I have been reading bits of it out loud to my husband who doesn't really read 'baby' books and like me he has laughed out loud at the similarities between the baby in the book and our little boy!!! The insight into the way "Hairy" and "Smooth" interact and deal with the various situations thrown at them is genius (and disturbingly similar to our own experiences!) This book would be perfect for any new parent suffering from a sense of humour failure due to exhaustion, or in fact to any one who wants to know exactly what is really going on in the land of the babygro!!!

So *this* is what they're really thinking..., 18 Oct 2006
We have an 11 month old and so far I have read the first 20 or so chapters (some of which are only a page long). Both my wife and I have laughed out loud several times so far, and neither of us would normally do so! (As I said, we have an 11-month old so humour has all but left us).

The book is written from the perspective of an intelligent, insightful and inquisitive 1 year old and is genuinely funny.

Perfect 'on the toilet' reading.

Good designs!, 14 Jun 2007
Doreen has never been a keen box-gardener, so I hoped to stimulate some interest in pruning with this gift. Fortunately, she was open-minded enough to try a few things out and some of the designs were a big success. Frankly, they are vastly superior to anything that Ray Mears' has to offer in his guide to 'Bushcraft'. My only complaint is that I often get completely lost in navigating through her reconstruction of the Hampton Court maze. By the time this foreplay is over and I'm ready for action, she's usually fallen asleep!

Little book, Big laugh!, 14 Dec 2006
As others have said, the 'Little Book Of Minge Topiary' is not for the reserved, easily shocked reader! The book boasts full colour illustrations of various styles for one's 'down-there-hair,' witty titles to match and advice on how to aquire your favoured style!
I purchased one for a light hearted giggle on Christmas day and have just had a flick through prior to wrapping up. Although a very simple idea, this book is really very funny.
I'm going to end up buying one for another female friend, i just know it!

a wonderful creative resource for the "alternative" hairdresser, 17 Aug 2006
I like to be alternative & creative in everyway I look, from top to toe EVERYWHERE! So i was overjoyed when my partners gave me this book as a present as it gave me design idea I had never thought of and gives my partners a lovely surprise now and again - they are wondering what design i will use next! Fantastic resource indeed!

Hirsute humour, 19 Dec 2003
This Little book is quite hilarious but not for the faint-hearted or easily-offended.
Colourfully illustrated, there are all sorts of different ‘her-styles’ on offer, from the ingenious to the ludicrous, so you are bound to find something you like.
There is, thankfully, a section with practical tips on how to maintain one’s topiary (however basic) and, importantly, how to minimise discomfort (that stubble can be a menace).
Boys, be quite sure of your girlfriend’s sense of humour before you give her this book.
Girls, get it for your mates or keep it for yourself and give the love of your life a little surprise!

It doesn't contain the magical solution you're hoping for!, 28 May 2008
I thought this book was going to brillant - full of humor and wonderful advice. The only good bit of advice was "drink lots of wine". To be totally honest this book made me cry into my wine, it made me so unhappy and resentful, maybe her husband wouldn't help her up if her step-kid tripped her over in the street but my boyfriend definately would! Don't judge it all by one woman's advice! If you're struggling with the whole step-kids / ex wife thing talk to your partner about it and admit you're struggling - it will do you a lot better than buying this book!

Positively recommended, 17 Jun 2007
As other reviewers have said, not only is this a good and funny read, it makes me feel understood in my new and often challenging role as a step mum, and also gives some encouragement and practical advice and ideas on how to make our family life work and be happy. Compared to the relate guide which is quite gloomy, this was refreshing.

One to treasure, 05 Jul 2006
Having got exactly what it says on the book i thought it was worth a try. Once i had started i couldn't put it down. As i have had the misfortune of inheriting a PEW (physco ex wife) i felt, at last, that i wasn't on my own - someone else out there understood me - it was such a revelation! I would recommend this book to any stepmother out there who might be struggling a little, it's a great read and puts many situations into perspective.

A life-saver! *****, 09 Dec 2005
Brilliant!!! This book deals with all of the trials and tribulations of stepmotherhood with humour and a great deal of positive affirmations, such a change from the usual books I have read on the subject which quite frankly have left me feeling really disheartened and quite depressed about the situation! I would heartily recommend this book to anyone who finds themselves in the situtation of dealing with a ex-wife and a brood of step-children. It focuses on the positives without being unrealistic and most of all gives you much-needed perspective!!

My new bible., 17 Aug 2005
Sally Bjornsen's advice on how to become a stepmother gracefully is invaluable. She takes a consistently positive, loving approach, setting an example for all of us wading through the trials and tribulations of stepfamilies. Her writing validated my concerns and frustrations when no one else could. In this book I found empathy, humor, compassion, guidance and great advice! Thank you.

Buy this book for yourself or your partner, 24 Mar 2008
It is such a funny and well written little book. I bought it for my partner as our son was just coming up to one at Xmas. He reads dark horror books (my partner, not the baby ;)and i guessed it would sit on his bookcase until it finally got put out for recycling.... How wrong i was. He read it cover to cover and often read out sections for me to listen to. I bought a couple of other books about 'being grandparents' and they were your typical quotation books with very little substance. This is a fab little book that will actually get read!!! Super

So true!, 05 Oct 2007
I think you have to be a parent to enjoy this book. And when you are one, oh boy, how true this book seems to be. My little boy - 16 months old - is acting and reacting exactly like the baby in the book, as if he read it!! Spooky!
And good to know that we are not alone!
Smooth

wonderful!, 10 Jun 2007
So funny! Makes me laugh and look forward to my small person being 1! you will never be able to look at toilets (Secret Baths) and Holidays (Fewer things in a strange place) in the same way again.

Hilarious!, 31 Dec 2006
I have a six month old baby boy and my mother in law has just given me this book for Christmas. It is totally hilarious and spot on!!! I have been reading bits of it out loud to my husband who doesn't really read 'baby' books and like me he has laughed out loud at the similarities between the baby in the book and our little boy!!! The insight into the way "Hairy" and "Smooth" interact and deal with the various situations thrown at them is genius (and disturbingly similar to our own experiences!) This book would be perfect for any new parent suffering from a sense of humour failure due to exhaustion, or in fact to any one who wants to know exactly what is really going on in the land of the babygro!!!

So *this* is what they're really thinking..., 18 Oct 2006
We have an 11 month old and so far I have read the first 20 or so chapters (some of which are only a page long). Both my wife and I have laughed out loud several times so far, and neither of us would normally do so! (As I said, we have an 11-month old so humour has all but left us).

The book is written from the perspective of an intelligent, insightful and inquisitive 1 year old and is genuinely funny.

Perfect 'on the toilet' reading.

Good designs!, 14 Jun 2007
Doreen has never been a keen box-gardener, so I hoped to stimulate some interest in pruning with this gift. Fortunately, she was open-minded enough to try a few things out and some of the designs were a big success. Frankly, they are vastly superior to anything that Ray Mears' has to offer in his guide to 'Bushcraft'. My only complaint is that I often get completely lost in navigating through her reconstruction of the Hampton Court maze. By the time this foreplay is over and I'm ready for action, she's usually fallen asleep!

Little book, Big laugh!, 14 Dec 2006
As others have said, the 'Little Book Of Minge Topiary' is not for the reserved, easily shocked reader! The book boasts full colour illustrations of various styles for one's 'down-there-hair,' witty titles to match and advice on how to aquire your favoured style!
I purchased one for a light hearted giggle on Christmas day and have just had a flick through prior to wrapping up. Although a very simple idea, this book is really very funny.
I'm going to end up buying one for another female friend, i just know it!

a wonderful creative resource for the "alternative" hairdresser, 17 Aug 2006
I like to be alternative & creative in everyway I look, from top to toe EVERYWHERE! So i was overjoyed when my partners gave me this book as a present as it gave me design idea I had never thought of and gives my partners a lovely surprise now and again - they are wondering what design i will use next! Fantastic resource indeed!

Hirsute humour, 19 Dec 2003
This Little book is quite hilarious but not for the faint-hearted or easily-offended.
Colourfully illustrated, there are all sorts of different ‘her-styles’ on offer, from the ingenious to the ludicrous, so you are bound to find something you like.
There is, thankfully, a section with practical tips on how to maintain one’s topiary (however basic) and, importantly, how to minimise discomfort (that stubble can be a menace).
Boys, be quite sure of your girlfriend’s sense of humour before you give her this book.
Girls, get it for your mates or keep it for yourself and give the love of your life a little surprise!

It doesn't contain the magical solution you're hoping for!, 28 May 2008
I thought this book was going to brillant - full of humor and wonderful advice. The only good bit of advice was "drink lots of wine". To be totally honest this book made me cry into my wine, it made me so unhappy and resentful, maybe her husband wouldn't help her up if her step-kid tripped her over in the street but my boyfriend definately would! Don't judge it all by one woman's advice! If you're struggling with the whole step-kids / ex wife thing talk to your partner about it and admit you're struggling - it will do you a lot better than buying this book!

Positively recommended, 17 Jun 2007
As other reviewers have said, not only is this a good and funny read, it makes me feel understood in my new and often challenging role as a step mum, and also gives some encouragement and practical advice and ideas on how to make our family life work and be happy. Compared to the relate guide which is quite gloomy, this was refreshing.

One to treasure, 05 Jul 2006
Having got exactly what it says on the book i thought it was worth a try. Once i had started i couldn't put it down. As i have had the misfortune of inheriting a PEW (physco ex wife) i felt, at last, that i wasn't on my own - someone else out there understood me - it was such a revelation! I would recommend this book to any stepmother out there who might be struggling a little, it's a great read and puts many situations into perspective.

A life-saver! *****, 09 Dec 2005
Brilliant!!! This book deals with all of the trials and tribulations of stepmotherhood with humour and a great deal of positive affirmations, such a change from the usual books I have read on the subject which quite frankly have left me feeling really disheartened and quite depressed about the situation! I would heartily recommend this book to anyone who finds themselves in the situtation of dealing with a ex-wife and a brood of step-children. It focuses on the positives without being unrealistic and most of all gives you much-needed perspective!!

My new bible., 17 Aug 2005
Sally Bjornsen's advice on how to become a stepmother gracefully is invaluable. She takes a consistently positive, loving approach, setting an example for all of us wading through the trials and tribulations of stepfamilies. Her writing validated my concerns and frustrations when no one else could. In this book I found empathy, humor, compassion, guidance and great advice! Thank you.

The ultimate lifesaver, 31 Jan 2003
I try always to have this book at home and selfishly never lend it. The reason - it has been of great help when I was recovering from my last "wet" relapse. It contains short, witty and extremely to the point sayings: short so you can read them before the shakes make you drop the book, humorous for when you're disgusted with yourself, and to the point 'cause this is a serious, deadly illness. I hope never to feel like that last time but to continue using this book to show off at meetings (has anyone said anything about humility?).

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

Buy this book for yourself or your partner, 24 Mar 2008
It is such a funny and well written little book. I bought it for my partner as our son was just coming up to one at Xmas. He reads dark horror books (my partner, not the baby ;)and i guessed it would sit on his bookcase until it finally got put out for recycling.... How wrong i was. He read it cover to cover and often read out sections for me to listen to. I bought a couple of other books about 'being grandparents' and they were your typical quotation books with very little substance. This is a fab little book that will actually get read!!! Super

So true!, 05 Oct 2007
I think you have to be a parent to enjoy this book. And when you are one, oh boy, how true this book seems to be. My little boy - 16 months old - is acting and reacting exactly like the baby in the book, as if he read it!! Spooky!
And good to know that we are not alone!
Smooth

wonderful!, 10 Jun 2007
So funny! Makes me laugh and look forward to my small person being 1! you will never be able to look at toilets (Secret Baths) and Holidays (Fewer things in a strange place) in the same way again.

Hilarious!, 31 Dec 2006
I have a six month old baby boy and my mother in law has just given me this book for Christmas. It is totally hilarious and spot on!!! I have been reading bits of it out loud to my husband who doesn't really read 'baby' books and like me he has laughed out loud at the similarities between the baby in the book and our little boy!!! The insight into the way "Hairy" and "Smooth" interact and deal with the various situations thrown at them is genius (and disturbingly similar to our own experiences!) This book would be perfect for any new parent suffering from a sense of humour failure due to exhaustion, or in fact to any one who wants to know exactly what is really going on in the land of the babygro!!!

So *this* is what they're really thinking..., 18 Oct 2006
We have an 11 month old and so far I have read the first 20 or so chapters (some of which are only a page long). Both my wife and I have laughed out loud several times so far, and neither of us would normally do so! (As I said, we have an 11-month old so humour has all but left us).

The book is written from the perspective of an intelligent, insightful and inquisitive 1 year old and is genuinely funny.

Perfect 'on the toilet' reading.

Good designs!, 14 Jun 2007
Doreen has never been a keen box-gardener, so I hoped to stimulate some interest in pruning with this gift. Fortunately, she was open-minded enough to try a few things out and some of the designs were a big success. Frankly, they are vastly superior to anything that Ray Mears' has to offer in his guide to 'Bushcraft'. My only complaint is that I often get completely lost in navigating through her reconstruction of the Hampton Court maze. By the time this foreplay is over and I'm ready for action, she's usually fallen asleep!

Little book, Big laugh!, 14 Dec 2006
As others have said, the 'Little Book Of Minge Topiary' is not for the reserved, easily shocked reader! The book boasts full colour illustrations of various styles for one's 'down-there-hair,' witty titles to match and advice on how to aquire your favoured style!
I purchased one for a light hearted giggle on Christmas day and have just had a flick through prior to wrapping up. Although a very simple idea, this book is really very funny.
I'm going to end up buying one for another female friend, i just know it!

a wonderful creative resource for the "alternative" hairdresser, 17 Aug 2006
I like to be alternative & creative in everyway I look, from top to toe EVERYWHERE! So i was overjoyed when my partners gave me this book as a present as it gave me design idea I had never thought of and gives my partners a lovely surprise now and again - they are wondering what design i will use next! Fantastic resource indeed!

Hirsute humour, 19 Dec 2003
This Little book is quite hilarious but not for the faint-hearted or easily-offended.
Colourfully illustrated, there are all sorts of different ‘her-styles’ on offer, from the ingenious to the ludicrous, so you are bound to find something you like.
There is, thankfully, a section with practical tips on how to maintain one’s topiary (however basic) and, importantly, how to minimise discomfort (that stubble can be a menace).
Boys, be quite sure of your girlfriend’s sense of humour before you give her this book.
Girls, get it for your mates or keep it for yourself and give the love of your life a little surprise!

It doesn't contain the magical solution you're hoping for!, 28 May 2008
I thought this book was going to brillant - full of humor and wonderful advice. The only good bit of advice was "drink lots of wine". To be totally honest this book made me cry into my wine, it made me so unhappy and resentful, maybe her husband wouldn't help her up if her step-kid tripped her over in the street but my boyfriend definately would! Don't judge it all by one woman's advice! If you're struggling with the whole step-kids / ex wife thing talk to your partner about it and admit you're struggling - it will do you a lot better than buying this book!

Positively recommended, 17 Jun 2007
As other reviewers have said, not only is this a good and funny read, it makes me feel understood in my new and often challenging role as a step mum, and also gives some encouragement and practical advice and ideas on how to make our family life work and be happy. Compared to the relate guide which is quite gloomy, this was refreshing.

One to treasure, 05 Jul 2006
Having got exactly what it says on the book i thought it was worth a try. Once i had started i couldn't put it down. As i have had the misfortune of inheriting a PEW (physco ex wife) i felt, at last, that i wasn't on my own - someone else out there understood me - it was such a revelation! I would recommend this book to any stepmother out there who might be struggling a little, it's a great read and puts many situations into perspective.

A life-saver! *****, 09 Dec 2005
Brilliant!!! This book deals with all of the trials and tribulations of stepmotherhood with humour and a great deal of positive affirmations, such a change from the usual books I have read on the subject which quite frankly have left me feeling really disheartened and quite depressed about the situation! I would heartily recommend this book to anyone who finds themselves in the situtation of dealing with a ex-wife and a brood of step-children. It focuses on the positives without being unrealistic and most of all gives you much-needed perspective!!

My new bible., 17 Aug 2005
Sally Bjornsen's advice on how to become a stepmother gracefully is invaluable. She takes a consistently positive, loving approach, setting an example for all of us wading through the trials and tribulations of stepfamilies. Her writing validated my concerns and frustrations when no one else could. In this book I found empathy, humor, compassion, guidance and great advice! Thank you.

The ultimate lifesaver, 31 Jan 2003
I try always to have this book at home and selfishly never lend it. The reason - it has been of great help when I was recovering from my last "wet" relapse. It contains short, witty and extremely to the point sayings: short so you can read them before the shakes make you drop the book, humorous for when you're disgusted with yourself, and to the point 'cause this is a serious, deadly illness. I hope never to feel like that last time but to continue using this book to show off at meetings (has anyone said anything about humility?).

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

Worth buying, 02 Feb 2008
This is a very funny book and has some brilliant questions and answers. It is great, so buy it!!

Fabulous, 03 Jan 2008
I loved this book, being a real 'Fact Finder' this was the perfect book for me, and funny too. All those little questions about humans that somehow make it into your head - answered, right here. A great buy.

Some off-color humor amid some semi-serious Q and A, 13 Dec 2006
I knew why men have nipples before I read this book. Because we're all female for the first six weeks after conception until the male hormones kick in. Yes, macho men, the default human is female. But I can never resist the kind of book in which there are questions we'd like the answers to and answers.

Ah, but this book is a little different. First, some of the questions are given equivocal answers, which is to be expected, since most of what there is to know isn't known. Some of the questions, like "Will using a cell phone give you a brain tumor?" or "Is it true that left-handed people are smarter than right-handed people?" aren't answered at all. Leyner, who is a writer, and Goldberg, who is an MD, have a way of going around the question. I got the feeling that the extent of their research didn't go much past the Internet--which might raise the question, how did this book ever become a best seller and inspire a sequel? The answer, my friend, is in the comedy.

Leyner and Goldberg are a comedy team. While the bulk of the book is in the Qs and As, a good part consists of some hijinks at a cocktail party (thus the three martinis, although Leyner is mostly into Don Julio tequila). A third part seems to be lifted verbatim from their emails to each other.

Part of the fun are those emails because they seem to give the reader a realistic glimpse into the cooperative creative process. It is also kind of fun to read what a doctor writes when he lets his hair down, so to speak, or at least takes off the white coat. However all of this is carefully staged. This is one of those "best seller" ideas that actually worked. These guys trade raunchy humor spiked with some information and lo and behold it works.

Well, it semi-works. I liked the book and read it through in a setting, but some of the humor may be a little too raunchy for some.

Bottom line: diverting enough for a rainy day or for that cross country flight, or if you need a break from War and Peace.

A good idea ruined, 07 May 2006
Have to disagree with the other reviewers - it's the unnecessary, self congratulatory, trying-far-too-hard "humour" that forced me to put this book down before I'd barely got past the first chapter. When the writers eventually stop talking about what wacky characters they both are and realise there's a question to be answered, the answer is normally so short as to be pointless. In the right hands (think Bryson), it could have been entertaining, but this is utterly tedious.

Not bad!, 27 Mar 2006
Some funny parts to this book but there are parts too which were not that interesting really. Worth a look though, particuarly for the humour.

Buy this book for yourself or your partner, 24 Mar 2008
It is such a funny and well written little book. I bought it for my partner as our son was just coming up to one at Xmas. He reads dark horror books (my partner, not the baby ;)and i guessed it would sit on his bookcase until it finally got put out for recycling.... How wrong i was. He read it cover to cover and often read out sections for me to listen to. I bought a couple of other books about 'being grandparents' and they were your typical quotation books with very little substance. This is a fab little book that will actually get read!!! Super

So true!, 05 Oct 2007
I think you have to be a parent to enjoy this book. And when you are one, oh boy, how true this book seems to be. My little boy - 16 months old - is acting and reacting exactly like the baby in the book, as if he read it!! Spooky!
And good to know that we are not alone!
Smooth

wonderful!, 10 Jun 2007
So funny! Makes me laugh and look forward to my small person being 1! you will never be able to look at toilets (Secret Baths) and Holidays (Fewer things in a strange place) in the same way again.

Hilarious!, 31 Dec 2006
I have a six month old baby boy and my mother in law has just given me this book for Christmas. It is totally hilarious and spot on!!! I have been reading bits of it out loud to my husband who doesn't really read 'baby' books and like me he has laughed out loud at the similarities between the baby in the book and our little boy!!! The insight into the way "Hairy" and "Smooth" interact and deal with the various situations thrown at them is genius (and disturbingly similar to our own experiences!) This book would be perfect for any new parent suffering from a sense of humour failure due to exhaustion, or in fact to any one who wants to know exactly what is really going on in the land of the babygro!!!

So *this* is what they're really thinking..., 18 Oct 2006
We have an 11 month old and so far I have read the first 20 or so chapters (some of which are only a page long). Both my wife and I have laughed out loud several times so far, and neither of us would normally do so! (As I said, we have an 11-month old so humour has all but left us).

The book is written from the perspective of an intelligent, insightful and inquisitive 1 year old and is genuinely funny.

Perfect 'on the toilet' reading.

Good designs!, 14 Jun 2007
Doreen has never been a keen box-gardener, so I hoped to stimulate some interest in pruning with this gift. Fortunately, she was open-minded enough to try a few things out and some of the designs were a big success. Frankly, they are vastly superior to anything that Ray Mears' has to offer in his guide to 'Bushcraft'. My only complaint is that I often get completely lost in navigating through her reconstruction of the Hampton Court maze. By the time this foreplay is over and I'm ready for action, she's usually fallen asleep!

Little book, Big laugh!, 14 Dec 2006
As others have said, the 'Little Book Of Minge Topiary' is not for the reserved, easily shocked reader! The book boasts full colour illustrations of various styles for one's 'down-there-hair,' witty titles to match and advice on how to aquire your favoured style!
I purchased one for a light hearted giggle on Christmas day and have just had a flick through prior to wrapping up. Although a very simple idea, this book is really very funny.
I'm going to end up buying one for another female friend, i just know it!

a wonderful creative resource for the "alternative" hairdresser, 17 Aug 2006
I like to be alternative & creative in everyway I look, from top to toe EVERYWHERE! So i was overjoyed when my partners gave me this book as a present as it gave me design idea I had never thought of and gives my partners a lovely surprise now and again - they are wondering what design i will use next! Fantastic resource indeed!

Hirsute humour, 19 Dec 2003
This Little book is quite hilarious but not for the faint-hearted or easily-offended.
Colourfully illustrated, there are all sorts of different ‘her-styles’ on offer, from the ingenious to the ludicrous, so you are bound to find something you like.
There is, thankfully, a section with practical tips on how to maintain one’s topiary (however basic) and, importantly, how to minimise discomfort (that stubble can be a menace).
Boys, be quite sure of your girlfriend’s sense of humour before you give her this book.
Girls, get it for your mates or keep it for yourself and give the love of your life a little surprise!

It doesn't contain the magical solution you're hoping for!, 28 May 2008
I thought this book was going to brillant - full of humor and wonderful advice. The only good bit of advice was "drink lots of wine". To be totally honest this book made me cry into my wine, it made me so unhappy and resentful, maybe her husband wouldn't help her up if her step-kid tripped her over in the street but my boyfriend definately would! Don't judge it all by one woman's advice! If you're struggling with the whole step-kids / ex wife thing talk to your partner about it and admit you're struggling - it will do you a lot better than buying this book!

Positively recommended, 17 Jun 2007
As other reviewers have said, not only is this a good and funny read, it makes me feel understood in my new and often challenging role as a step mum, and also gives some encouragement and practical advice and ideas on how to make our family life work and be happy. Compared to the relate guide which is quite gloomy, this was refreshing.

One to treasure, 05 Jul 2006
Having got exactly what it says on the book i thought it was worth a try. Once i had started i couldn't put it down. As i have had the misfortune of inheriting a PEW (physco ex wife) i felt, at last, that i wasn't on my own - someone else out there understood me - it was such a revelation! I would recommend this book to any stepmother out there who might be struggling a little, it's a great read and puts many situations into perspective.

A life-saver! *****, 09 Dec 2005
Brilliant!!! This book deals with all of the trials and tribulations of stepmotherhood with humour and a great deal of positive affirmations, such a change from the usual books I have read on the subject which quite frankly have left me feeling really disheartened and quite depressed about the situation! I would heartily recommend this book to anyone who finds themselves in the situtation of dealing with a ex-wife and a brood of step-children. It focuses on the positives without being unrealistic and most of all gives you much-needed perspective!!

My new bible., 17 Aug 2005
Sally Bjornsen's advice on how to become a stepmother gracefully is invaluable. She takes a consistently positive, loving approach, setting an example for all of us wading through the trials and tribulations of stepfamilies. Her writing validated my concerns and frustrations when no one else could. In this book I found empathy, humor, compassion, guidance and great advice! Thank you.

The ultimate lifesaver, 31 Jan 2003
I try always to have this book at home and selfishly never lend it. The reason - it has been of great help when I was recovering from my last "wet" relapse. It contains short, witty and extremely to the point sayings: short so you can read them before the shakes make you drop the book, humorous for when you're disgusted with yourself, and to the point 'cause this is a serious, deadly illness. I hope never to feel like that last time but to continue using this book to show off at meetings (has anyone said anything about humility?).

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

Worth buying, 02 Feb 2008
This is a very funny book and has some brilliant questions and answers. It is great, so buy it!!

Fabulous, 03 Jan 2008
I loved this book, being a real 'Fact Finder' this was the perfect book for me, and funny too. All those little questions about humans that somehow make it into your head - answered, right here. A great buy.

Some off-color humor amid some semi-serious Q and A, 13 Dec 2006
I knew why men have nipples before I read this book. Because we're all female for the first six weeks after conception until the male hormones kick in. Yes, macho men, the default human is female. But I can never resist the kind of book in which there are questions we'd like the answers to and answers.

Ah, but this book is a little different. First, some of the questions are given equivocal answers, which is to be expected, since most of what there is to know isn't known. Some of the questions, like "Will using a cell phone give you a brain tumor?" or "Is it true that left-handed people are smarter than right-handed people?" aren't answered at all. Leyner, who is a writer, and Goldberg, who is an MD, have a way of going around the question. I got the feeling that the extent of their research didn't go much past the Internet--which might raise the question, how did this book ever become a best seller and inspire a sequel? The answer, my friend, is in the comedy.

Leyner and Goldberg are a comedy team. While the bulk of the book is in the Qs and As, a good part consists of some hijinks at a cocktail party (thus the three martinis, although Leyner is mostly into Don Julio tequila). A third part seems to be lifted verbatim from their emails to each other.

Part of the fun are those emails because they seem to give the reader a realistic glimpse into the cooperative creative process. It is also kind of fun to read what a doctor writes when he lets his hair down, so to speak, or at least takes off the white coat. However all of this is carefully staged. This is one of those "best seller" ideas that actually worked. These guys trade raunchy humor spiked with some information and lo and behold it works.

Well, it semi-works. I liked the book and read it through in a setting, but some of the humor may be a little too raunchy for some.

Bottom line: diverting enough for a rainy day or for that cross country flight, or if you need a break from War and Peace.

A good idea ruined, 07 May 2006
Have to disagree with the other reviewers - it's the unnecessary, self congratulatory, trying-far-too-hard "humour" that forced me to put this book down before I'd barely got past the first chapter. When the writers eventually stop talking about what wacky characters they both are and realise there's a question to be answered, the answer is normally so short as to be pointless. In the right hands (think Bryson), it could have been entertaining, but this is utterly tedious.

Not bad!, 27 Mar 2006
Some funny parts to this book but there are parts too which were not that interesting really. Worth a look though, particuarly for the humour.

number 5 - a new breed of war time tales, 09 Sep 2006
World War Two has begun and James Herriot who enlisted for the RAF has been called up. Leaving his new wife behind he heads off to London for the initial part of his training which includes lots of marching, running and other activities to make them fit for the forces. The book isn't really about what happens to him while in the forces but we do get snippets of it, mostly the more jovial ones. Most of the time he uses a memory from the forces as a launch pad into a story from his time as a vet.

Still funny as ever but this foray into the life of James Herriot tugs a little more at the heartstrings as it takes us back to a time of human suffering and camaraderie that only war can bring about. More first rate stuff by Mr Herriot!


really brilliant, 18 Jul 2001
I thought this book was absolutely fantastic!!!! It was so good I took a whole day out and read it. My favourite story was the last chapter when he went to the farmers but the farmer didn't realise he was a vet and was trying to calf a cow it took him an hour and took Jim a few minutes. It's a funny yet serious book set in the second world war while his wife is pregnant and he sneaks away and really has a way of getting around people. A loveable and kind chracter always helping people and friends out.

Buy this book for yourself or your partner, 24 Mar 2008
It is such a funny and well written little book. I bought it for my partner as our son was just coming up to one at Xmas. He reads dark horror books (my partner, not the baby ;)and i guessed it would sit on his bookcase until it finally got put out for recycling.... How wrong i was. He read it cover to cover and often read out sections for me to listen to. I bought a couple of other books about 'being grandparents' and they were your typical quotation books with very little substance. This is a fab little book that will actually get read!!! Super

So true!, 05 Oct 2007
I think you have to be a parent to enjoy this book. And when you are one, oh boy, how true this book seems to be. My little boy - 16 months old - is acting and reacting exactly like the baby in the book, as if he read it!! Spooky!
And good to know that we are not alone!
Smooth

wonderful!, 10 Jun 2007
So funny! Makes me laugh and look forward to my small person being 1! you will never be able to look at toilets (Secret Baths) and Holidays (Fewer things in a strange place) in the same way again.

Hilarious!, 31 Dec 2006
I have a six month old baby boy and my mother in law has just given me this book for Christmas. It is totally hilarious and spot on!!! I have been reading bits of it out loud to my husband who doesn't really read 'baby' books and like me he has laughed out loud at the similarities between the baby in the book and our little boy!!! The insight into the way "Hairy" and "Smooth" interact and deal with the various situations thrown at them is genius (and disturbingly similar to our own experiences!) This book would be perfect for any new parent suffering from a sense of humour failure due to exhaustion, or in fact to any one who wants to know exactly what is really going on in the land of the babygro!!!

So *this* is what they're really thinking..., 18 Oct 2006
We have an 11 month old and so far I have read the first 20 or so chapters (some of which are only a page long). Both my wife and I have laughed out loud several times so far, and neither of us would normally do so! (As I said, we have an 11-month old so humour has all but left us).

The book is written from the perspective of an intelligent, insightful and inquisitive 1 year old and is genuinely funny.

Perfect 'on the toilet' reading.

Good designs!, 14 Jun 2007
Doreen has never been a keen box-gardener, so I hoped to stimulate some interest in pruning with this gift. Fortunately, she was open-minded enough to try a few things out and some of the designs were a big success. Frankly, they are vastly superior to anything that Ray Mears' has to offer in his guide to 'Bushcraft'. My only complaint is that I often get completely lost in navigating through her reconstruction of the Hampton Court maze. By the time this foreplay is over and I'm ready for action, she's usually fallen asleep!

Little book, Big laugh!, 14 Dec 2006
As others have said, the 'Little Book Of Minge Topiary' is not for the reserved, easily shocked reader! The book boasts full colour illustrations of various styles for one's 'down-there-hair,' witty titles to match and advice on how to aquire your favoured style!
I purchased one for a light hearted giggle on Christmas day and have just had a flick through prior to wrapping up. Although a very simple idea, this book is really very funny.
I'm going to end up buying one for another female friend, i just know it!

a wonderful creative resource for the "alternative" hairdresser, 17 Aug 2006
I like to be alternative & creative in everyway I look, from top to toe EVERYWHERE! So i was overjoyed when my partners gave me this book as a present as it gave me design idea I had never thought of and gives my partners a lovely surprise now and again - they are wondering what design i will use next! Fantastic resource indeed!

Hirsute humour, 19 Dec 2003
This Little book is quite hilarious but not for the faint-hearted or easily-offended.
Colourfully illustrated, there are all sorts of different ‘her-styles’ on offer, from the ingenious to the ludicrous, so you are bound to find something you like.
There is, thankfully, a section with practical tips on how to maintain one’s topiary (however basic) and, importantly, how to minimise discomfort (that stubble can be a menace).
Boys, be quite sure of your girlfriend’s sense of humour before you give her this book.
Girls, get it for your mates or keep it for yourself and give the love of your life a little surprise!

It doesn't contain the magical solution you're hoping for!, 28 May 2008
I thought this book was going to brillant - full of humor and wonderful advice. The only good bit of advice was "drink lots of wine". To be totally honest this book made me cry into my wine, it made me so unhappy and resentful, maybe her husband wouldn't help her up if her step-kid tripped her over in the street but my boyfriend definately would! Don't judge it all by one woman's advice! If you're struggling with the whole step-kids / ex wife thing talk to your partner about it and admit you're struggling - it will do you a lot better than buying this book!

Positively recommended, 17 Jun 2007
As other reviewers have said, not only is this a good and funny read, it makes me feel understood in my new and often challenging role as a step mum, and also gives some encouragement and practical advice and ideas on how to make our family life work and be happy. Compared to the relate guide which is quite gloomy, this was refreshing.

One to treasure, 05 Jul 2006
Having got exactly what it says on the book i thought it was worth a try. Once i had started i couldn't put it down. As i have had the misfortune of inheriting a PEW (physco ex wife) i felt, at last, that i wasn't on my own - someone else out there understood me - it was such a revelation! I would recommend this book to any stepmother out there who might be struggling a little, it's a great read and puts many situations into perspective.

A life-saver! *****, 09 Dec 2005
Brilliant!!! This book deals with all of the trials and tribulations of stepmotherhood with humour and a great deal of positive affirmations, such a change from the usual books I have read on the subject which quite frankly have left me feeling really disheartened and quite depressed about the situation! I would heartily recommend this book to anyone who finds themselves in the situtation of dealing with a ex-wife and a brood of step-children. It focuses on the positives without being unrealistic and most of all gives you much-needed perspective!!

My new bible., 17 Aug 2005
Sally Bjornsen's advice on how to become a stepmother gracefully is invaluable. She takes a consistently positive, loving approach, setting an example for all of us wading through the trials and tribulations of stepfamilies. Her writing validated my concerns and frustrations when no one else could. In this book I found empathy, humor, compassion, guidance and great advice! Thank you.

The ultimate lifesaver, 31 Jan 2003
I try always to have this book at home and selfishly never lend it. The reason - it has been of great help when I was recovering from my last "wet" relapse. It contains short, witty and extremely to the point sayings: short so you can read them before the shakes make you drop the book, humorous for when you're disgusted with yourself, and to the point 'cause this is a serious, deadly illness. I hope never to feel like that last time but to continue using this book to show off at meetings (has anyone said anything about humility?).

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

Worth buying, 02 Feb 2008
This is a very funny book and has some brilliant questions and answers. It is great, so buy it!!

Fabulous, 03 Jan 2008
I loved this book, being a real 'Fact Finder' this was the perfect book for me, and funny too. All those little questions about humans that somehow make it into your head - answered, right here. A great buy.

Some off-color humor amid some semi-serious Q and A, 13 Dec 2006
I knew why men have nipples before I read this book. Because we're all female for the first six weeks after conception until the male hormones kick in. Yes, macho men, the default human is female. But I can never resist the kind of book in which there are questions we'd like the answers to and answers.

Ah, but this book is a little different. First, some of the questions are given equivocal answers, which is to be expected, since most of what there is to know isn't known. Some of the questions, like "Will using a cell phone give you a brain tumor?" or "Is it true that left-handed people are smarter than right-handed people?" aren't answered at all. Leyner, who is a writer, and Goldberg, who is an MD, have a way of going around the question. I got the feeling that the extent of their research didn't go much past the Internet--which might raise the question, how did this book ever become a best seller and inspire a sequel? The answer, my friend, is in the comedy.

Leyner and Goldberg are a comedy team. While the bulk of the book is in the Qs and As, a good part consists of some hijinks at a cocktail party (thus the three martinis, although Leyner is mostly into Don Julio tequila). A third part seems to be lifted verbatim from their emails to each other.

Part of the fun are those emails because they seem to give the reader a realistic glimpse into the cooperative creative process. It is also kind of fun to read what a doctor writes when he lets his hair down, so to speak, or at least takes off the white coat. However all of this is carefully staged. This is one of those "best seller" ideas that actually worked. These guys trade raunchy humor spiked with some information and lo and behold it works.

Well, it semi-works. I liked the book and read it through in a setting, but some of the humor may be a little too raunchy for some.

Bottom line: diverting enough for a rainy day or for that cross country flight, or if you need a break from War and Peace.

A good idea ruined, 07 May 2006
Have to disagree with the other reviewers - it's the unnecessary, self congratulatory, trying-far-too-hard "humour" that forced me to put this book down before I'd barely got past the first chapter. When the writers eventually stop talking about what wacky characters they both are and realise there's a question to be answered, the answer is normally so short as to be pointless. In the right hands (think Bryson), it could have been entertaining, but this is utterly tedious.

Not bad!, 27 Mar 2006
Some funny parts to this book but there are parts too which were not that interesting really. Worth a look though, particuarly for the humour.

number 5 - a new breed of war time tales, 09 Sep 2006
World War Two has begun and James Herriot who enlisted for the RAF has been called up. Leaving his new wife behind he heads off to London for the initial part of his training which includes lots of marching, running and other activities to make them fit for the forces. The book isn't really about what happens to him while in the forces but we do get snippets of it, mostly the more jovial ones. Most of the time he uses a memory from the forces as a launch pad into a story from his time as a vet.

Still funny as ever but this foray into the life of James Herriot tugs a little more at the heartstrings as it takes us back to a time of human suffering and camaraderie that only war can bring about. More first rate stuff by Mr Herriot!


really brilliant, 18 Jul 2001
I thought this book was absolutely fantastic!!!! It was so good I took a whole day out and read it. My favourite story was the last chapter when he went to the farmers but the farmer didn't realise he was a vet and was trying to calf a cow it took him an hour and took Jim a few minutes. It's a funny yet serious book set in the second world war while his wife is pregnant and he sneaks away and really has a way of getting around people. A loveable and kind chracter always helping people and friends out.

Fun, light-hearted, and informative, 04 Jul 2008
I bought this lively, charming book as a gift for a close friend who has struggled with a variety of mental health difficulties for years. She has been misdiagnosed twice, with unfortunate and frightening consequences, and I thought that this good-humoured spoof on the tendency to label everything that moves would cheer her up. She was amused to discover that she shares a diagnosis with some beloved childhood characters.

Thanks to its friendly, accessible, and imaginative style, 'Tigger on the Couch' will also do a great deal to remove some of the stigma that is attached to various mental health conditions - which, according to James, was the reason why she wrote the book. She is related to somebody who has experienced mental health problems and wanted to change public perceptions of such difficulties. This is just the book to do it.

No, it's not a textbook. It's not a diagnostic manual. It's not intended to be. If you are a qualified psychologist or some other mental health professional, buy something that is explicitly targeted at you - but bear in mind that you don't have to have be a doctor or have a degree to write about mental health problems. They can affect anyone, either directly or indirectly - just as they affected Laura James. The perspective of a clinician may be valuable, but that doesn't mean that the perspective of an interested and compassionate layperson is useless.

Nonsense written by someone with no relevant qualifications, 20 Apr 2008
It's a shame that Ms James felt she should to author a book that she is unqualified to write. "Author, Journalist and Magazine editor" (from the book itself) Laura James should stick to subjects she knows something about, and leave psychology and psychiatry to those of us who are actually qualified to write about it.

Her ludicrous misunderstanding of even the most basic psychiatric concepts would be laughable if they weren't so potentially damaging. Her notions of the characters here being 'ill' are nonsense, and show that she does not understand that psychopathology is culturally situated. Winnie the Pooh lives well in his space and culture, with a house, good friends, enough food etc. He is happy and has a fulfilling life. Drug and behavior therapy (as she suggests) would not be indicated, and the very notion that they would is repugnant.

I think Ms James has misunderstood the purpose of psychology and psychiatry. It is not to indoctrinate, and failing that to drug, everyone into some bland conformity, but rather to relieve distress. Her 'case studies' demonstrate her simple misunderstanding of this basic point.

I was further distressed to note that she has also failed to research her source material sufficiently. Winnie the Pooh's songs do not "Cause distress to his friends and neighbors" (p.49) rather they are often pleased by them and request them to mark special occasions. The whole book is replete with these kinds of errors of fact, which makes her laughable interpretations all the more ludicrous.

What concerns me most is that some people will understandably buy this book in the belief that the contents are an accessible introduction to a series of facts. They are not. Consequently, I shall not be recommending it in my own practice. I urge you instead to buy one of the many quality introductory works available that are written by people who have some basic knowledge of (and qualification in) the subject.


Very fun!, 15 Oct 2007
Having heard Chris Evans say on his show that he's tkaing this book on his honeymoon, I decided to check it out. I found the individual case studies really funny, it made me laugh out lould. On a more serious note the book also makes the subject of mental illness a lot more accessible, without downplaying it.

pull up a chair and tell me why you bounce so much?, 11 Oct 2007
what a superb idea and a great way to deal with some important issues in an interesting and approachable way. It probably isnt going to become the standard text book for the British Psychological Society but somehow I dont think that was the intention.

Thoroughly enjoyable, 11 Oct 2007
A very enjoyable, insightful and interesting read. I discovered a lot about psychological disorders and it was really thought-provoking. Definitely a book I would recommend.

Buy this book for yourself or your partner, 24 Mar 2008
It is such a funny and well written little book. I bought it for my partner as our son was just coming up to one at Xmas. He reads dark horror books (my partner, not the baby ;)and i guessed it would sit on his bookcase until it finally got put out for recycling.... How wrong i was. He read it cover to cover and often read out sections for me to listen to. I bought a couple of other books about 'being grandparents' and they were your typical quotation books with very little substance. This is a fab little book that will actually get read!!! Super

So true!, 05 Oct 2007
I think you have to be a parent to enjoy this book. And when you are one, oh boy, how true this book seems to be. My little boy - 16 months old - is acting and reacting exactly like the baby in the book, as if he read it!! Spooky!
And good to know that we are not alone!
Smooth

wonderful!, 10 Jun 2007
So funny! Makes me laugh and look forward to my small person being 1! you will never be able to look at toilets (Secret Baths) and Holidays (Fewer things in a strange place) in the same way again.

Hilarious!, 31 Dec 2006
I have a six month old baby boy and my mother in law has just given me this book for Christmas. It is totally hilarious and spot on!!! I have been reading bits of it out loud to my husband who doesn't really read 'baby' books and like me he has laughed out loud at the similarities between the baby in the book and our little boy!!! The insight into the way "Hairy" and "Smooth" interact and deal with the various situations thrown at them is genius (and disturbingly similar to our own experiences!) This book would be perfect for any new parent suffering from a sense of humour failure due to exhaustion, or in fact to any one who wants to know exactly what is really going on in the land of the babygro!!!

So *this* is what they're really thinking..., 18 Oct 2006
We have an 11 month old and so far I have read the first 20 or so chapters (some of which are only a page long). Both my wife and I have laughed out loud several times so far, and neither of us would normally do so! (As I said, we have an 11-month old so humour has all but left us).

The book is written from the perspective of an intelligent, insightful and inquisitive 1 year old and is genuinely funny.

Perfect 'on the toilet' reading.

Good designs!, 14 Jun 2007
Doreen has never been a keen box-gardener, so I hoped to stimulate some interest in pruning with this gift. Fortunately, she was open-minded enough to try a few things out and some of the designs were a big success. Frankly, they are vastly superior to anything that Ray Mears' has to offer in his guide to 'Bushcraft'. My only complaint is that I often get completely lost in navigating through her reconstruction of the Hampton Court maze. By the time this foreplay is over and I'm ready for action, she's usually fallen asleep!

Little book, Big laugh!, 14 Dec 2006
As others have said, the 'Little Book Of Minge Topiary' is not for the reserved, easily shocked reader! The book boasts full colour illustrations of various styles for one's 'down-there-hair,' witty titles to match and advice on how to aquire your favoured style!
I purchased one for a light hearted giggle on Christmas day and have just had a flick through prior to wrapping up. Although a very simple idea, this book is really very funny.
I'm going to end up buying one for another female friend, i just know it!

a wonderful creative resource for the "alternative" hairdresser, 17 Aug 2006
I like to be alternative & creative in everyway I look, from top to toe EVERYWHERE! So i was overjoyed when my partners gave me this book as a present as it gave me design idea I had never thought of and gives my partners a lovely surprise now and again - they are wondering what design i will use next! Fantastic resource indeed!

Hirsute humour, 19 Dec 2003
This Little book is quite hilarious but not for the faint-hearted or easily-offended.
Colourfully illustrated, there are all sorts of different ‘her-styles’ on offer, from the ingenious to the ludicrous, so you are bound to find something you like.
There is, thankfully, a section with practical tips on how to maintain one’s topiary (however basic) and, importantly, how to minimise discomfort (that stubble can be a menace).
Boys, be quite sure of your girlfriend’s sense of humour before you give her this book.
Girls, get it for your mates or keep it for yourself and give the love of your life a little surprise!

It doesn't contain the magical solution you're hoping for!, 28 May 2008
I thought this book was going to brillant - full of humor and wonderful advice. The only good bit of advice was "drink lots of wine". To be totally honest this book made me cry into my wine, it made me so unhappy and resentful, maybe her husband wouldn't help her up if her step-kid tripped her over in the street but my boyfriend definately would! Don't judge it all by one woman's advice! If you're struggling with the whole step-kids / ex wife thing talk to your partner about it and admit you're struggling - it will do you a lot better than buying this book!

Positively recommended, 17 Jun 2007
As other reviewers have said, not only is this a good and funny read, it makes me feel understood in my new and often challenging role as a step mum, and also gives some encouragement and practical advice and ideas on how to make our family life work and be happy. Compared to the relate guide which is quite gloomy, this was refreshing.

One to treasure, 05 Jul 2006
Having got exactly what it says on the book i thought it was worth a try. Once i had started i couldn't put it down. As i have had the misfortune of inheriting a PEW (physco ex wife) i felt, at last, that i wasn't on my own - someone else out there understood me - it was such a revelation! I would recommend this book to any stepmother out there who might be struggling a little, it's a great read and puts many situations into perspective.

A life-saver! *****, 09 Dec 2005
Brilliant!!! This book deals with all of the trials and tribulations of stepmotherhood with humour and a great deal of positive affirmations, such a change from the usual books I have read on the subject which quite frankly have left me feeling really disheartened and quite depressed about the situation! I would heartily recommend this book to anyone who finds themselves in the situtation of dealing with a ex-wife and a brood of step-children. It focuses on the positives without being unrealistic and most of all gives you much-needed perspective!!

My new bible., 17 Aug 2005
Sally Bjornsen's advice on how to become a stepmother gracefully is invaluable. She takes a consistently positive, loving approach, setting an example for all of us wading through the trials and tribulations of stepfamilies. Her writing validated my concerns and frustrations when no one else could. In this book I found empathy, humor, compassion, guidance and great advice! Thank you.

The ultimate lifesaver, 31 Jan 2003
I try always to have this book at home and selfishly never lend it. The reason - it has been of great help when I was recovering from my last "wet" relapse. It contains short, witty and extremely to the point sayings: short so you can read them before the shakes make you drop the book, humorous for when you're disgusted with yourself, and to the point 'cause this is a serious, deadly illness. I hope never to feel like that last time but to continue using this book to show off at meetings (has anyone said anything about humility?).

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

The best gift imaginable for a recovering addict/alcoholic!, 20 Nov 1998
What a refreshing little jewel this book is! All the wisdom, tragedy, and humor a regular 12-stepper witnesses in meetings is captured in this succinct, accessible collection. Dr. Ron B has taken the marvelous oral tradition of the 12-step programs and articulated them in an elegantly simple series of delightful morsels. I am buying this book for every recovering person I know.

Worth buying, 02 Feb 2008
This is a very funny book and has some brilliant questions and answers. It is great, so buy it!!

Fabulous, 03 Jan 2008
I loved this book, being a real 'Fact Finder' this was the perfect book for me, and funny too. All those little questions about humans that somehow make it into your head - answered, right here. A great buy.

Some off-color humor amid some semi-serious Q and A, 13 Dec 2006
I knew why men have nipples before I read this book. Because we're all female for the first six weeks after conception until the male hormones kick in. Yes, macho men, the default human is female. But I can never resist the kind of book in which there are questions we'd like the answers to and answers.

Ah, but this book is a little different. First, some of the questions are given equivocal answers, which is to be expected, since most of what there is to know isn't known. Some of the questions, like "Will using a cell phone give you a brain tumor?" or "Is it true that left-handed people are smarter than right-handed people?" aren't answered at all. Leyner, who is a writer, and Goldberg, who is an MD, have a way of going around the question. I got the feeling that the extent of their research didn't go much past the Internet--which might raise the question, how did this book ever become a best seller and inspire a sequel? The answer, my friend, is in the comedy.

Leyner and Goldberg are a comedy team. While the bulk of the book is in the Qs and As, a good part consists of some hijinks at a cocktail party (thus the three martinis, although Leyner is mostly into Don Julio tequila). A third part seems to be lifted verbatim from their emails to each other.

Part of the fun are those emails because they seem to give the reader a realistic glimpse into the cooperative creative process. It is also kind of fun to read what a doctor writes when he lets his hair down, so to speak, or at least takes off the white coat. However all of this is carefully staged. This is one of those "best seller" ideas that actually worked. These guys trade raunchy humor spiked with some information and lo and behold it works.

Well, it semi-works. I liked the book and read it through in a setting, but some of the humor may be a little too raunchy for some.

Bottom line: diverting enough for a rainy day or for that cross country flight, or if you need a break from War and Peace.

A good idea ruined, 07 May 2006
Have to disagree with the other reviewers - it's the unnecessary, self congratulatory, trying-far-too-hard "humour" that forced me to put this book down before I'd barely got past the first chapter. When the writers eventually stop talking about what wacky characters they both are and realise there's a question to be answered, the answer is normally so short as to be pointless. In the right hands (think Bryson), it could have been entertaining, but this is utterly tedious.

Not bad!, 27 Mar 2006
Some funny parts to this book but there are parts too which were not that interesting really. Worth a look though, particuarly for the humour.

number 5 - a new breed of war time tales, 09 Sep 2006
World War Two has begun and James Herriot who enlisted for the RAF has been called up. Leaving his new wife behind he heads off to London for the initial part of his training which includes lots of marching, running and other activities to make them fit for the forces. The book isn't really about what happens to him while in the forces but we do get snippets of it, mostly the more jovial ones. Most of the time he uses a memory from the forces as a launch pad into a story from his time as a vet.

Still funny as ever but this foray into the life of James Herriot tugs a little more at the heartstrings as it takes us back to a time of human suffering and camaraderie that only war can bring about. More first rate stuff by Mr Herriot!


really brilliant, 18 Jul 2001
I thought this book was absolutely fantastic!!!! It was so good I took a whole day out and read it. My favourite story was the last chapter when he went to the farmers but the farmer didn't realise he was a vet and was trying to calf a cow it took him an hour and took Jim a few minutes. It's a funny yet serious book set in the second world war while his wife is pregnant and he sneaks away and really has a way of getting around people. A loveable and kind chracter always helping people and friends out.

Fun, light-hearted, and informative, 04 Jul 2008
I bought this lively, charming book as a gift for a close friend who has struggled with a variety of mental health difficulties for years. She has been misdiagnosed twice, with unfortunate and frightening consequences, and I thought that this good-humoured spoof on the tendency to label everything that moves would cheer her up. She was amused to discover that she shares a diagnosis with some beloved childhood characters.

Thanks to its friendly, accessible, and imaginative style, 'Tigger on the Couch' will also do a great deal to remove some of the stigma that is attached to various mental health conditions - which, according to James, was the reason why she wrote the book. She is related to somebody who has experienced mental health problems and wanted to change public perceptions of such difficulties. This is just the book to do it.

No, it's not a textbook. It's not a diagnostic manual. It's not intended to be. If you are a qualified psychologist or some other mental health professional, buy something that is explicitly targeted at you - but bear in mind that you don't have to have be a doctor or have a degree to write about mental health problems. They can affect anyone, either directly or indirectly - just as they affected Laura James. The perspective of a clinician may be valuable, but that doesn't mean that the perspective of an interested and compassionate layperson is useless.

Nonsense written by someone with no relevant qualifications, 20 Apr 2008
It's a shame that Ms James felt she should to author a book that she is unqualified to write. "Author, Journalist and Magazine editor" (from the book itself) Laura James should stick to subjects she knows something about, and leave psychology and psychiatry to those of us who are actually qualified to write about it.

Her ludicrous misunderstanding of even the most basic psychiatric concepts would be laughable if they weren't so potentially damaging. Her notions of the characters here being 'ill' are nonsense, and show that she does not understand that psychopathology is culturally situated. Winnie the Pooh lives well in his space and culture, with a house, good friends, enough food etc. He is happy and has a fulfilling life. Drug and behavior therapy (as she suggests) would not be indicated, and the very notion that they would is repugnant.

I think Ms James has misunderstood the purpose of psychology and psychiatry. It is not to indoctrinate, and failing that to drug, everyone into some bland conformity, but rather to relieve distress. Her 'case studies' demonstrate her simple misunderstanding of this basic point.

I was further distressed to note that she has also failed to research her source material sufficiently. Winnie the Pooh's songs do not "Cause distress to his friends and neighbors" (p.49) rather they are often pleased by them and request them to mark special occasions. The whole book is replete with these kinds of errors of fact, which makes her laughable interpretations all the more ludicrous.

What concerns me most is that some people will understandably buy this book in the belief that the contents are an accessible introduction to a series of facts. They are not. Consequently, I shall not be recommending it in my own practice. I urge you instead to buy one of the many quality introductory works available that are written by people who have some basic knowledge of (and qualification in) the subject.


Very fun!, 15 Oct 2007
Having heard Chris Evans say on his show that he's tkaing this book on his honeymoon, I decided to check it out. I found the individual case studies really funny, it made me laugh out lould. On a more serious note the book also makes the subject of mental illness a lot more accessible, without downplaying it.

pull up a chair and tell me why you bounce so much?, 11 Oct 2007
what a superb idea and a great way to deal with some important issues in an interesting and approachable way. It probably isnt going to become the standard text book for the British Psychological Society but somehow I dont think that was the intention.

Thoroughly enjoyable, 11 Oct 2007
A very enjoyable, insightful and interesting read. I discovered a lot about psychological disorders and it was really thought-provoking. Definitely a book I would recommend.

Can't be bettered, 16 Mar 2008
Very funny. Well written. Well produced. And excellent yoga! For those who don't take themselves too seriously, though it's the others who would benefit even more!