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good book, 17 Oct 2008
I was given this after my dad died i read it to my children it helped i have since given it to two sets of children and i think it helped them a little. I think it is a great book
Pond Life, 23 Apr 2008
The pamphlet is well written and illustrated. Good for sharing with a young child. However, it was not very useful to me. The analogy is misleading and obviously based on an 'afterlife'. May appeal to some but not for those looking for a more straightforward, rational approach.
A lovely story, and a very useful analogy., 18 Mar 2007
I'm reading this book to my 4-year old who's asking where Granddad has gone. It's a particularly useful analogy because of the 2 different environments lived in by the water bugs and the dragonfly, which explains why we can't go to see if Granddad is OK and neither can he come back to see us! It is a bit religious, but if you're OK with that, it's a great story.
WATER BUGS AND DROGNFLIES, 10 Sep 2003
This book tells a sweet story of a water bug who leaves his old life behind to become a dragonfly in his new life. I did feel the story would only appeal to under 5-6 year olds as the story was fictional and did not give the reality of death. Beautifully illustrated, a lovely prayer at the end of the book with the option to put the name of the deceased in. This book would make a nice keepsake for a child to remember the loved one that died.
Only helpful to VERY young kids with Christian beliefs., 05 Feb 2002
I found this very religious. The reading level was focused at VERY young children, but it was not appropriate to read the whole book to the child in my case as the Christian leaning of the end of the book was too strong for my liking. It was a bit of a waste of money!
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Customer Reviews
good book, 17 Oct 2008
I was given this after my dad died i read it to my children it helped i have since given it to two sets of children and i think it helped them a little. I think it is a great book
Pond Life, 23 Apr 2008
The pamphlet is well written and illustrated. Good for sharing with a young child. However, it was not very useful to me. The analogy is misleading and obviously based on an 'afterlife'. May appeal to some but not for those looking for a more straightforward, rational approach.
A lovely story, and a very useful analogy., 18 Mar 2007
I'm reading this book to my 4-year old who's asking where Granddad has gone. It's a particularly useful analogy because of the 2 different environments lived in by the water bugs and the dragonfly, which explains why we can't go to see if Granddad is OK and neither can he come back to see us! It is a bit religious, but if you're OK with that, it's a great story.
WATER BUGS AND DROGNFLIES, 10 Sep 2003
This book tells a sweet story of a water bug who leaves his old life behind to become a dragonfly in his new life. I did feel the story would only appeal to under 5-6 year olds as the story was fictional and did not give the reality of death. Beautifully illustrated, a lovely prayer at the end of the book with the option to put the name of the deceased in. This book would make a nice keepsake for a child to remember the loved one that died.
Only helpful to VERY young kids with Christian beliefs., 05 Feb 2002
I found this very religious. The reading level was focused at VERY young children, but it was not appropriate to read the whole book to the child in my case as the Christian leaning of the end of the book was too strong for my liking. It was a bit of a waste of money!
I'm glad someone thinks I'm wonderful, 29 Feb 2008
Agree with other reviewer. Ordered this two days ago as a gift for my friend's children. I took the time to read it through when it came and am reordering it now for another friend and her family. Wondering who else to buy it for because it would make a fab gift for many different friends and occasions. I'm a bit of a logical science girl and don't really do treacly, which it was slightly, but maybe that's what I need occasionally (yes, tears came to my eyes). It's not a 'story' as such, it's more of a 'meander through how God shows us that he thinks we're wonderful' with fab little illustrations. The book is beautifully presented and isn't just a children's book but is for anybody who wants to take the time and to hear what it's saying. I just hope it gets well used and well worn and doesn't now just sit on the shelf. That would be a real shame.
Just for info - I expected it to be bigger when it came. It's 13cm x 16cm so is quite pocket sized, but I expect perfect for little and bigger hands.
This book is beautiful, 14 May 2004
This is the most special present you can buy for someone you love... it convays the deep love God has for us in a way that little children and adults alike can relate too. It is so sweet it made me cry. The pictures are childlike and inocent it is written with such gentleness... everyone should read it.
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Customer Reviews
good book, 17 Oct 2008
I was given this after my dad died i read it to my children it helped i have since given it to two sets of children and i think it helped them a little. I think it is a great book
Pond Life, 23 Apr 2008
The pamphlet is well written and illustrated. Good for sharing with a young child. However, it was not very useful to me. The analogy is misleading and obviously based on an 'afterlife'. May appeal to some but not for those looking for a more straightforward, rational approach.
A lovely story, and a very useful analogy., 18 Mar 2007
I'm reading this book to my 4-year old who's asking where Granddad has gone. It's a particularly useful analogy because of the 2 different environments lived in by the water bugs and the dragonfly, which explains why we can't go to see if Granddad is OK and neither can he come back to see us! It is a bit religious, but if you're OK with that, it's a great story.
WATER BUGS AND DROGNFLIES, 10 Sep 2003
This book tells a sweet story of a water bug who leaves his old life behind to become a dragonfly in his new life. I did feel the story would only appeal to under 5-6 year olds as the story was fictional and did not give the reality of death. Beautifully illustrated, a lovely prayer at the end of the book with the option to put the name of the deceased in. This book would make a nice keepsake for a child to remember the loved one that died.
Only helpful to VERY young kids with Christian beliefs., 05 Feb 2002
I found this very religious. The reading level was focused at VERY young children, but it was not appropriate to read the whole book to the child in my case as the Christian leaning of the end of the book was too strong for my liking. It was a bit of a waste of money!
I'm glad someone thinks I'm wonderful, 29 Feb 2008
Agree with other reviewer. Ordered this two days ago as a gift for my friend's children. I took the time to read it through when it came and am reordering it now for another friend and her family. Wondering who else to buy it for because it would make a fab gift for many different friends and occasions. I'm a bit of a logical science girl and don't really do treacly, which it was slightly, but maybe that's what I need occasionally (yes, tears came to my eyes). It's not a 'story' as such, it's more of a 'meander through how God shows us that he thinks we're wonderful' with fab little illustrations. The book is beautifully presented and isn't just a children's book but is for anybody who wants to take the time and to hear what it's saying. I just hope it gets well used and well worn and doesn't now just sit on the shelf. That would be a real shame.
Just for info - I expected it to be bigger when it came. It's 13cm x 16cm so is quite pocket sized, but I expect perfect for little and bigger hands.
This book is beautiful, 14 May 2004
This is the most special present you can buy for someone you love... it convays the deep love God has for us in a way that little children and adults alike can relate too. It is so sweet it made me cry. The pictures are childlike and inocent it is written with such gentleness... everyone should read it.
Agree with Virginia Reader, 30 Jun 1999
Yes. This book was a great source of pre-marital questions and awnsers, but it did indeed have a hidden agenda. I too would not have purchased the book knowing that the entire last chapter was based on Christian principals and marriage.
A MUST read for couples planning to marry!, 11 May 1999
This book is fabulous. My husband I read it as part of our pre-marital preparation, and we return to the principles taught in it frequently. It gives a solid look at relationships and the things that make a marriage tick. Having the perspectives of the two married authors gives this book an advantage over other pre-marital books because it accurately portrays both the male and female perspectives, emotions, and needs in a marriage. This book is a must read, whether you're just engaged or have been married for 10 years!
An excellent counseling tool for dating or engaged couples!, 13 Mar 1999
This workbook, along with the main book, are excellent counseling tools for couples engaged or considering marriage. It is also excellent for couples that are already married. It is professionally done, and includes many exercises that help couples communicate their expectations about marriage and eliminate some problems before they begin. It is well worth the money.
Practical, 08 Feb 1999
I just finished this book. I thought it was great! It contains very practical usefull information on 'real' realationships and how-to's. I did not however, as the title implies (saving your marriage BEFORE it starts), feel like most of the advise given was for pre-married people. As a Christian, some of the examples given, were not for someone in just a dating situation. I would love to read a book by the Parrotts that was exclusively for singles...
One of the best pre-marriage books on the market!, 24 Jan 1999
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I highly recommend this book. My husband and I went through it together after being married less than a year and it was a GREAT resource and still is a great reminder of how to keep our marriage working well. I especially enjoyed the chapter on how to fight a good fight- because we ALL do it and need help in not damaging our relationships for the long haul in the process of working out our differences. I use this book (and the workbook) for many of the couples I counsel and find it hits most of the important areas and is an easy read. I actually think it has helpful information for most couples, not the only pre-married.
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Customer Reviews
good book, 17 Oct 2008
I was given this after my dad died i read it to my children it helped i have since given it to two sets of children and i think it helped them a little. I think it is a great book
Pond Life, 23 Apr 2008
The pamphlet is well written and illustrated. Good for sharing with a young child. However, it was not very useful to me. The analogy is misleading and obviously based on an 'afterlife'. May appeal to some but not for those looking for a more straightforward, rational approach.
A lovely story, and a very useful analogy., 18 Mar 2007
I'm reading this book to my 4-year old who's asking where Granddad has gone. It's a particularly useful analogy because of the 2 different environments lived in by the water bugs and the dragonfly, which explains why we can't go to see if Granddad is OK and neither can he come back to see us! It is a bit religious, but if you're OK with that, it's a great story.
WATER BUGS AND DROGNFLIES, 10 Sep 2003
This book tells a sweet story of a water bug who leaves his old life behind to become a dragonfly in his new life. I did feel the story would only appeal to under 5-6 year olds as the story was fictional and did not give the reality of death. Beautifully illustrated, a lovely prayer at the end of the book with the option to put the name of the deceased in. This book would make a nice keepsake for a child to remember the loved one that died.
Only helpful to VERY young kids with Christian beliefs., 05 Feb 2002
I found this very religious. The reading level was focused at VERY young children, but it was not appropriate to read the whole book to the child in my case as the Christian leaning of the end of the book was too strong for my liking. It was a bit of a waste of money!
I'm glad someone thinks I'm wonderful, 29 Feb 2008
Agree with other reviewer. Ordered this two days ago as a gift for my friend's children. I took the time to read it through when it came and am reordering it now for another friend and her family. Wondering who else to buy it for because it would make a fab gift for many different friends and occasions. I'm a bit of a logical science girl and don't really do treacly, which it was slightly, but maybe that's what I need occasionally (yes, tears came to my eyes). It's not a 'story' as such, it's more of a 'meander through how God shows us that he thinks we're wonderful' with fab little illustrations. The book is beautifully presented and isn't just a children's book but is for anybody who wants to take the time and to hear what it's saying. I just hope it gets well used and well worn and doesn't now just sit on the shelf. That would be a real shame.
Just for info - I expected it to be bigger when it came. It's 13cm x 16cm so is quite pocket sized, but I expect perfect for little and bigger hands.
This book is beautiful, 14 May 2004
This is the most special present you can buy for someone you love... it convays the deep love God has for us in a way that little children and adults alike can relate too. It is so sweet it made me cry. The pictures are childlike and inocent it is written with such gentleness... everyone should read it.
Agree with Virginia Reader, 30 Jun 1999
Yes. This book was a great source of pre-marital questions and awnsers, but it did indeed have a hidden agenda. I too would not have purchased the book knowing that the entire last chapter was based on Christian principals and marriage.
A MUST read for couples planning to marry!, 11 May 1999
This book is fabulous. My husband I read it as part of our pre-marital preparation, and we return to the principles taught in it frequently. It gives a solid look at relationships and the things that make a marriage tick. Having the perspectives of the two married authors gives this book an advantage over other pre-marital books because it accurately portrays both the male and female perspectives, emotions, and needs in a marriage. This book is a must read, whether you're just engaged or have been married for 10 years!
An excellent counseling tool for dating or engaged couples!, 13 Mar 1999
This workbook, along with the main book, are excellent counseling tools for couples engaged or considering marriage. It is also excellent for couples that are already married. It is professionally done, and includes many exercises that help couples communicate their expectations about marriage and eliminate some problems before they begin. It is well worth the money.
Practical, 08 Feb 1999
I just finished this book. I thought it was great! It contains very practical usefull information on 'real' realationships and how-to's. I did not however, as the title implies (saving your marriage BEFORE it starts), feel like most of the advise given was for pre-married people. As a Christian, some of the examples given, were not for someone in just a dating situation. I would love to read a book by the Parrotts that was exclusively for singles...
One of the best pre-marriage books on the market!, 24 Jan 1999
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I highly recommend this book. My husband and I went through it together after being married less than a year and it was a GREAT resource and still is a great reminder of how to keep our marriage working well. I especially enjoyed the chapter on how to fight a good fight- because we ALL do it and need help in not damaging our relationships for the long haul in the process of working out our differences. I use this book (and the workbook) for many of the couples I counsel and find it hits most of the important areas and is an easy read. I actually think it has helpful information for most couples, not the only pre-married.
Drawing a good line in religious life, 07 Jan 2008
A very kind, down-to-earth book - the best kind of Christian counseling for managing relations, obligations, caring and abuse. Where religion commonly promotes unlimited demands on people, Cloud and Townsend show humane limits based on respect for both ourselves and others. And they firmly challenge any who feel it spiritual to blame the victim in cases of emotional abuse. On the way, they question many boundaries we draw in our lives, urging open consideration of what is actually helpful:
"Christians often have a warped way of looking at work. Unless someone is working 'in the ministry', they see his work as secular. However, this view of work distorts the biblical picture. All of us -- not only full-time ministers -- have gifts and talents that we contribute to humanity. We all have a vocation, a `calling' into service. Wherever we work, whatever we do, we are to do `unto the Lord'." (Colossians 3:23) (p. 194)
Enlightening, 25 Sep 2006
Having taken my time reading through this excellent book, I completed it feeling so much better for understanding some of the situations I have recently been faced with. So many of the examples and so much of the advice given, made me feel as though I was sitting in "the consulting room". I would highly recommend this book to anyone, whether they are under pressure or leading an "apparently" organised lifestyle - so much to be gained in implementing this guidance.
Life changing, 29 Aug 2006
This is a life-changing book, and a classic. I thnk the main message of the book can be summarised very simply: I need to understand where my boundaries are; take responsibility for the things within my own boundaries; and allow other people to take responsibility for the things within their boundaries.
Several aspects of the book can be quite annoying.
* It is American, with the cultural assumptions and norms that this implies.
* It is very Christian, with many references to Biblical stories and providing chapter and verse references to most of the quotes. This is not a problem for me, but I suspect it will limit the accessibility of the book for prople who are not evangelical Christians, which is a pity because the content works whatevery you believe.
* The style is very repetitive and obvious: you hear about the experiencs of a person who is struggling with areas of their life, they get taught how to apply appropriate boundaries, and you then hear about how much better their life is now that they apply the principles we have taught them.
All of which is to say that the book grates on some people's nerves. But don't let this put you off: whatever the problems of culture and style, the content is relevant and vital. If you are not applying these principles, this book could be one of the most important you will ever read; and if you are, it will help you understand why your life is so much better than most of the people around you - and how to help them take control of their lives.
A 'Must-Read', 14 May 2006
I can honestly say that this book has really changed my life. God was on my case about reading it for several months beforehand and once I had, it opened my eyes to things I that only heard about or guessed at but had not really known. Personally, I think that the principles within it should be incorporated into our school curriculums. There would, I believe, be much less miscommunication, crime and heartache if we learnt these things early on in life! I highly recommend it!
a must-read!, 12 Mar 2006
An excellent book to read if you want to dramatically improve your relationships!
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good book, 17 Oct 2008
I was given this after my dad died i read it to my children it helped i have since given it to two sets of children and i think it helped them a little. I think it is a great book Pond Life, 23 Apr 2008
The pamphlet is well written and illustrated. Good for sharing with a young child. However, it was not very useful to me. The analogy is misleading and obviously based on an 'afterlife'. May appeal to some but not for those looking for a more straightforward, rational approach. A lovely story, and a very useful analogy., 18 Mar 2007
I'm reading this book to my 4-year old who's asking where Granddad has gone. It's a particularly useful analogy because of the 2 different environments lived in by the water bugs and the dragonfly, which explains why we can't go to see if Granddad is OK and neither can he come back to see us! It is a bit religious, but if you're OK with that, it's a great story. WATER BUGS AND DROGNFLIES, 10 Sep 2003
This book tells a sweet story of a water bug who leaves his old life behind to become a dragonfly in his new life. I did feel the story would only appeal to under 5-6 year olds as the story was fictional and did not give the reality of death. Beautifully illustrated, a lovely prayer at the end of the book with the option to put the name of the deceased in. This book would make a nice keepsake for a child to remember the loved one that died. Only helpful to VERY young kids with Christian beliefs., 05 Feb 2002
I found this very religious. The reading level was focused at VERY young children, but it was not appropriate to read the whole book to the child in my case as the Christian leaning of the end of the book was too strong for my liking. It was a bit of a waste of money! I'm glad someone thinks I'm wonderful, 29 Feb 2008
Agree with other reviewer. Ordered this two days ago as a gift for my friend's children. I took the time to read it through when it came and am reordering it now for another friend and her family. Wondering who else to buy it for because it would make a fab gift for many different friends and occasions. I'm a bit of a logical science girl and don't really do treacly, which it was slightly, but maybe that's what I need occasionally (yes, tears came to my eyes). It's not a 'story' as such, it's more of a 'meander through how God shows us that he thinks we're wonderful' with fab little illustrations. The book is beautifully presented and isn't just a children's book but is for anybody who wants to take the time and to hear what it's saying. I just hope it gets well used and well worn and doesn't now just sit on the shelf. That would be a real shame.
Just for info - I expected it to be bigger when it came. It's 13cm x 16cm so is quite pocket sized, but I expect perfect for little and bigger hands. This book is beautiful, 14 May 2004
This is the most special present you can buy for someone you love... it convays the deep love God has for us in a way that little children and adults alike can relate too. It is so sweet it made me cry. The pictures are childlike and inocent it is written with such gentleness... everyone should read it. Agree with Virginia Reader, 30 Jun 1999
Yes. This book was a great source of pre-marital questions and awnsers, but it did indeed have a hidden agenda. I too would not have purchased the book knowing that the entire last chapter was based on Christian principals and marriage. A MUST read for couples planning to marry!, 11 May 1999
This book is fabulous. My husband I read it as part of our pre-marital preparation, and we return to the principles taught in it frequently. It gives a solid look at relationships and the things that make a marriage tick. Having the perspectives of the two married authors gives this book an advantage over other pre-marital books because it accurately portrays both the male and female perspectives, emotions, and needs in a marriage. This book is a must read, whether you're just engaged or have been married for 10 years! An excellent counseling tool for dating or engaged couples!, 13 Mar 1999
This workbook, along with the main book, are excellent counseling tools for couples engaged or considering marriage. It is also excellent for couples that are already married. It is professionally done, and includes many exercises that help couples communicate their expectations about marriage and eliminate some problems before they begin. It is well worth the money. Practical, 08 Feb 1999
I just finished this book. I thought it was great! It contains very practical usefull information on 'real' realationships and how-to's. I did not however, as the title implies (saving your marriage BEFORE it starts), feel like most of the advise given was for pre-married people. As a Christian, some of the examples given, were not for someone in just a dating situation. I would love to read a book by the Parrotts that was exclusively for singles... One of the best pre-marriage books on the market!, 24 Jan 1999
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I highly recommend this book. My husband and I went through it together after being married less than a year and it was a GREAT resource and still is a great reminder of how to keep our marriage working well. I especially enjoyed the chapter on how to fight a good fight- because we ALL do it and need help in not damaging our relationships for the long haul in the process of working out our differences. I use this book (and the workbook) for many of the couples I counsel and find it hits most of the important areas and is an easy read. I actually think it has helpful information for most couples, not the only pre-married. Drawing a good line in religious life, 07 Jan 2008
A very kind, down-to-earth book - the best kind of Christian counseling for managing relations, obligations, caring and abuse. Where religion commonly promotes unlimited demands on people, Cloud and Townsend show humane limits based on respect for both ourselves and others. And they firmly challenge any who feel it spiritual to blame the victim in cases of emotional abuse. On the way, they question many boundaries we draw in our lives, urging open consideration of what is actually helpful:
"Christians often have a warped way of looking at work. Unless someone is working 'in the ministry', they see his work as secular. However, this view of work distorts the biblical picture. All of us -- not only full-time ministers -- have gifts and talents that we contribute to humanity. We all have a vocation, a `calling' into service. Wherever we work, whatever we do, we are to do `unto the Lord'." (Colossians 3:23) (p. 194)
Enlightening, 25 Sep 2006
Having taken my time reading through this excellent book, I completed it feeling so much better for understanding some of the situations I have recently been faced with. So many of the examples and so much of the advice given, made me feel as though I was sitting in "the consulting room". I would highly recommend this book to anyone, whether they are under pressure or leading an "apparently" organised lifestyle - so much to be gained in implementing this guidance. Life changing, 29 Aug 2006
This is a life-changing book, and a classic. I thnk the main message of the book can be summarised very simply: I need to understand where my boundaries are; take responsibility for the things within my own boundaries; and allow other people to take responsibility for the things within their boundaries.
Several aspects of the book can be quite annoying.
* It is American, with the cultural assumptions and norms that this implies.
* It is very Christian, with many references to Biblical stories and providing chapter and verse references to most of the quotes. This is not a problem for me, but I suspect it will limit the accessibility of the book for prople who are not evangelical Christians, which is a pity because the content works whatevery you believe.
* The style is very repetitive and obvious: you hear about the experiencs of a person who is struggling with areas of their life, they get taught how to apply appropriate boundaries, and you then hear about how much better their life is now that they apply the principles we have taught them.
All of which is to say that the book grates on some people's nerves. But don't let this put you off: whatever the problems of culture and style, the content is relevant and vital. If you are not applying these principles, this book could be one of the most important you will ever read; and if you are, it will help you understand why your life is so much better than most of the people around you - and how to help them take control of their lives. A 'Must-Read', 14 May 2006
I can honestly say that this book has really changed my life. God was on my case about reading it for several months beforehand and once I had, it opened my eyes to things I that only heard about or guessed at but had not really known. Personally, I think that the principles within it should be incorporated into our school curriculums. There would, I believe, be much less miscommunication, crime and heartache if we learnt these things early on in life! I highly recommend it! a must-read!, 12 Mar 2006
An excellent book to read if you want to dramatically improve your relationships! A simply wonderful book, 15 Feb 2005
I received this book on my confirmation day (4th May 2000) and I can say with certainty that this is one of my favorite books relating to my faith. Every time I have ever felt in need, I have turned to this book and God has spoken to me through it. 100% of the time. Without doubt. Even when I felt as though I didn't deserve to receive divine guidance, He has guided me to the relevant page in the book, every time. No Christian bookshelf would be complete without this book.
Spiritually uplifting: God really is with each of us., 15 Oct 2001
The book is structured with an individual message on each page, a message from Jesus directly to the reader, albeit via the author. A verse from the bible is printed at the bottom of each page, relating to the message. There is a handy theme index a the end of the book, and a few blank pages for the readers own notes. A tribute inside the book says "I have never experienced such a closeness to Jesus". It is truly hard to read this book without feeling such closeness. Some messages will literally bring tears to your eyes. Tears of sorrow, when recognising neglect and failure, followed by tears of joy when realising how much we are unconditionally loved. The book is spiritually uplifting, inspirational, and a true gift of love to anyone who wants to be loved.
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good book, 17 Oct 2008
I was given this after my dad died i read it to my children it helped i have since given it to two sets of children and i think it helped them a little. I think it is a great book Pond Life, 23 Apr 2008
The pamphlet is well written and illustrated. Good for sharing with a young child. However, it was not very useful to me. The analogy is misleading and obviously based on an 'afterlife'. May appeal to some but not for those looking for a more straightforward, rational approach. A lovely story, and a very useful analogy., 18 Mar 2007
I'm reading this book to my 4-year old who's asking where Granddad has gone. It's a particularly useful analogy because of the 2 different environments lived in by the water bugs and the dragonfly, which explains why we can't go to see if Granddad is OK and neither can he come back to see us! It is a bit religious, but if you're OK with that, it's a great story. WATER BUGS AND DROGNFLIES, 10 Sep 2003
This book tells a sweet story of a water bug who leaves his old life behind to become a dragonfly in his new life. I did feel the story would only appeal to under 5-6 year olds as the story was fictional and did not give the reality of death. Beautifully illustrated, a lovely prayer at the end of the book with the option to put the name of the deceased in. This book would make a nice keepsake for a child to remember the loved one that died. Only helpful to VERY young kids with Christian beliefs., 05 Feb 2002
I found this very religious. The reading level was focused at VERY young children, but it was not appropriate to read the whole book to the child in my case as the Christian leaning of the end of the book was too strong for my liking. It was a bit of a waste of money! I'm glad someone thinks I'm wonderful, 29 Feb 2008
Agree with other reviewer. Ordered this two days ago as a gift for my friend's children. I took the time to read it through when it came and am reordering it now for another friend and her family. Wondering who else to buy it for because it would make a fab gift for many different friends and occasions. I'm a bit of a logical science girl and don't really do treacly, which it was slightly, but maybe that's what I need occasionally (yes, tears came to my eyes). It's not a 'story' as such, it's more of a 'meander through how God shows us that he thinks we're wonderful' with fab little illustrations. The book is beautifully presented and isn't just a children's book but is for anybody who wants to take the time and to hear what it's saying. I just hope it gets well used and well worn and doesn't now just sit on the shelf. That would be a real shame.
Just for info - I expected it to be bigger when it came. It's 13cm x 16cm so is quite pocket sized, but I expect perfect for little and bigger hands. This book is beautiful, 14 May 2004
This is the most special present you can buy for someone you love... it convays the deep love God has for us in a way that little children and adults alike can relate too. It is so sweet it made me cry. The pictures are childlike and inocent it is written with such gentleness... everyone should read it. Agree with Virginia Reader, 30 Jun 1999
Yes. This book was a great source of pre-marital questions and awnsers, but it did indeed have a hidden agenda. I too would not have purchased the book knowing that the entire last chapter was based on Christian principals and marriage. A MUST read for couples planning to marry!, 11 May 1999
This book is fabulous. My husband I read it as part of our pre-marital preparation, and we return to the principles taught in it frequently. It gives a solid look at relationships and the things that make a marriage tick. Having the perspectives of the two married authors gives this book an advantage over other pre-marital books because it accurately portrays both the male and female perspectives, emotions, and needs in a marriage. This book is a must read, whether you're just engaged or have been married for 10 years! An excellent counseling tool for dating or engaged couples!, 13 Mar 1999
This workbook, along with the main book, are excellent counseling tools for couples engaged or considering marriage. It is also excellent for couples that are already married. It is professionally done, and includes many exercises that help couples communicate their expectations about marriage and eliminate some problems before they begin. It is well worth the money. Practical, 08 Feb 1999
I just finished this book. I thought it was great! It contains very practical usefull information on 'real' realationships and how-to's. I did not however, as the title implies (saving your marriage BEFORE it starts), feel like most of the advise given was for pre-married people. As a Christian, some of the examples given, were not for someone in just a dating situation. I would love to read a book by the Parrotts that was exclusively for singles... One of the best pre-marriage books on the market!, 24 Jan 1999
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I highly recommend this book. My husband and I went through it together after being married less than a year and it was a GREAT resource and still is a great reminder of how to keep our marriage working well. I especially enjoyed the chapter on how to fight a good fight- because we ALL do it and need help in not damaging our relationships for the long haul in the process of working out our differences. I use this book (and the workbook) for many of the couples I counsel and find it hits most of the important areas and is an easy read. I actually think it has helpful information for most couples, not the only pre-married. Drawing a good line in religious life, 07 Jan 2008
A very kind, down-to-earth book - the best kind of Christian counseling for managing relations, obligations, caring and abuse. Where religion commonly promotes unlimited demands on people, Cloud and Townsend show humane limits based on respect for both ourselves and others. And they firmly challenge any who feel it spiritual to blame the victim in cases of emotional abuse. On the way, they question many boundaries we draw in our lives, urging open consideration of what is actually helpful:
"Christians often have a warped way of looking at work. Unless someone is working 'in the ministry', they see his work as secular. However, this view of work distorts the biblical picture. All of us -- not only full-time ministers -- have gifts and talents that we contribute to humanity. We all have a vocation, a `calling' into service. Wherever we work, whatever we do, we are to do `unto the Lord'." (Colossians 3:23) (p. 194)
Enlightening, 25 Sep 2006
Having taken my time reading through this excellent book, I completed it feeling so much better for understanding some of the situations I have recently been faced with. So many of the examples and so much of the advice given, made me feel as though I was sitting in "the consulting room". I would highly recommend this book to anyone, whether they are under pressure or leading an "apparently" organised lifestyle - so much to be gained in implementing this guidance. Life changing, 29 Aug 2006
This is a life-changing book, and a classic. I thnk the main message of the book can be summarised very simply: I need to understand where my boundaries are; take responsibility for the things within my own boundaries; and allow other people to take responsibility for the things within their boundaries.
Several aspects of the book can be quite annoying.
* It is American, with the cultural assumptions and norms that this implies.
* It is very Christian, with many references to Biblical stories and providing chapter and verse references to most of the quotes. This is not a problem for me, but I suspect it will limit the accessibility of the book for prople who are not evangelical Christians, which is a pity because the content works whatevery you believe.
* The style is very repetitive and obvious: you hear about the experiencs of a person who is struggling with areas of their life, they get taught how to apply appropriate boundaries, and you then hear about how much better their life is now that they apply the principles we have taught them.
All of which is to say that the book grates on some people's nerves. But don't let this put you off: whatever the problems of culture and style, the content is relevant and vital. If you are not applying these principles, this book could be one of the most important you will ever read; and if you are, it will help you understand why your life is so much better than most of the people around you - and how to help them take control of their lives. A 'Must-Read', 14 May 2006
I can honestly say that this book has really changed my life. God was on my case about reading it for several months beforehand and once I had, it opened my eyes to things I that only heard about or guessed at but had not really known. Personally, I think that the principles within it should be incorporated into our school curriculums. There would, I believe, be much less miscommunication, crime and heartache if we learnt these things early on in life! I highly recommend it! a must-read!, 12 Mar 2006
An excellent book to read if you want to dramatically improve your relationships! A simply wonderful book, 15 Feb 2005
I received this book on my confirmation day (4th May 2000) and I can say with certainty that this is one of my favorite books relating to my faith. Every time I have ever felt in need, I have turned to this book and God has spoken to me through it. 100% of the time. Without doubt. Even when I felt as though I didn't deserve to receive divine guidance, He has guided me to the relevant page in the book, every time. No Christian bookshelf would be complete without this book.
Spiritually uplifting: God really is with each of us., 15 Oct 2001
The book is structured with an individual message on each page, a message from Jesus directly to the reader, albeit via the author. A verse from the bible is printed at the bottom of each page, relating to the message. There is a handy theme index a the end of the book, and a few blank pages for the readers own notes. A tribute inside the book says "I have never experienced such a closeness to Jesus". It is truly hard to read this book without feeling such closeness. Some messages will literally bring tears to your eyes. Tears of sorrow, when recognising neglect and failure, followed by tears of joy when realising how much we are unconditionally loved. The book is spiritually uplifting, inspirational, and a true gift of love to anyone who wants to be loved.
Lovely little pop-up cards which stand out from others. , 07 Oct 2008
Pros - I bought two lots of these cards for last Christmas (2007). There is one card for each letter of the alphabet, each with a pop-up white paper picture inside. These are very pretty indeed, particularly the one with a little Bethlehem style pop up of houses on a hill, the one with Pine Trees, and the one with a flying dove. They are sweet little cards and nice for a change, I received several compliments on them from people who I had sent them to. The cards come in a lovely sturdy navy blue tin with white snowflakes on it, which I am using to store other cards in now.
Cons - The cards are quite small and the envelopes look cheap and flimsy, not the quality I would have expected for these cards. A couple of the cards had pop ups which had not been trimmed properly and didn't pop up, so I had to trim and "free" parts, myself. The front of each card has a cut out image on, most of which are disappointing compared to the pop-up image inside.
I bought these in 2007 for £8 a tin which I feel was worth it, I don't think they are worth much more than that though.
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Customer Reviews
good book, 17 Oct 2008
I was given this after my dad died i read it to my children it helped i have since given it to two sets of children and i think it helped them a little. I think it is a great book Pond Life, 23 Apr 2008
The pamphlet is well written and illustrated. Good for sharing with a young child. However, it was not very useful to me. The analogy is misleading and obviously based on an 'afterlife'. May appeal to some but not for those looking for a more straightforward, rational approach. A lovely story, and a very useful analogy., 18 Mar 2007
I'm reading this book to my 4-year old who's asking where Granddad has gone. It's a particularly useful analogy because of the 2 different environments lived in by the water bugs and the dragonfly, which explains why we can't go to see if Granddad is OK and neither can he come back to see us! It is a bit religious, but if you're OK with that, it's a great story. WATER BUGS AND DROGNFLIES, 10 Sep 2003
This book tells a sweet story of a water bug who leaves his old life behind to become a dragonfly in his new life. I did feel the story would only appeal to under 5-6 year olds as the story was fictional and did not give the reality of death. Beautifully illustrated, a lovely prayer at the end of the book with the option to put the name of the deceased in. This book would make a nice keepsake for a child to remember the loved one that died. Only helpful to VERY young kids with Christian beliefs., 05 Feb 2002
I found this very religious. The reading level was focused at VERY young children, but it was not appropriate to read the whole book to the child in my case as the Christian leaning of the end of the book was too strong for my liking. It was a bit of a waste of money! I'm glad someone thinks I'm wonderful, 29 Feb 2008
Agree with other reviewer. Ordered this two days ago as a gift for my friend's children. I took the time to read it through when it came and am reordering it now for another friend and her family. Wondering who else to buy it for because it would make a fab gift for many different friends and occasions. I'm a bit of a logical science girl and don't really do treacly, which it was slightly, but maybe that's what I need occasionally (yes, tears came to my eyes). It's not a 'story' as such, it's more of a 'meander through how God shows us that he thinks we're wonderful' with fab little illustrations. The book is beautifully presented and isn't just a children's book but is for anybody who wants to take the time and to hear what it's saying. I just hope it gets well used and well worn and doesn't now just sit on the shelf. That would be a real shame.
Just for info - I expected it to be bigger when it came. It's 13cm x 16cm so is quite pocket sized, but I expect perfect for little and bigger hands. This book is beautiful, 14 May 2004
This is the most special present you can buy for someone you love... it convays the deep love God has for us in a way that little children and adults alike can relate too. It is so sweet it made me cry. The pictures are childlike and inocent it is written with such gentleness... everyone should read it. Agree with Virginia Reader, 30 Jun 1999
Yes. This book was a great source of pre-marital questions and awnsers, but it did indeed have a hidden agenda. I too would not have purchased the book knowing that the entire last chapter was based on Christian principals and marriage. A MUST read for couples planning to marry!, 11 May 1999
This book is fabulous. My husband I read it as part of our pre-marital preparation, and we return to the principles taught in it frequently. It gives a solid look at relationships and the things that make a marriage tick. Having the perspectives of the two married authors gives this book an advantage over other pre-marital books because it accurately portrays both the male and female perspectives, emotions, and needs in a marriage. This book is a must read, whether you're just engaged or have been married for 10 years! An excellent counseling tool for dating or engaged couples!, 13 Mar 1999
This workbook, along with the main book, are excellent counseling tools for couples engaged or considering marriage. It is also excellent for couples that are already married. It is professionally done, and includes many exercises that help couples communicate their expectations about marriage and eliminate some problems before they begin. It is well worth the money. Practical, 08 Feb 1999
I just finished this book. I thought it was great! It contains very practical usefull information on 'real' realationships and how-to's. I did not however, as the title implies (saving your marriage BEFORE it starts), feel like most of the advise given was for pre-married people. As a Christian, some of the examples given, were not for someone in just a dating situation. I would love to read a book by the Parrotts that was exclusively for singles... One of the best pre-marriage books on the market!, 24 Jan 1999
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I highly recommend this book. My husband and I went through it together after being married less than a year and it was a GREAT resource and still is a great reminder of how to keep our marriage working well. I especially enjoyed the chapter on how to fight a good fight- because we ALL do it and need help in not damaging our relationships for the long haul in the process of working out our differences. I use this book (and the workbook) for many of the couples I counsel and find it hits most of the important areas and is an easy read. I actually think it has helpful information for most couples, not the only pre-married. Drawing a good line in religious life, 07 Jan 2008
A very kind, down-to-earth book - the best kind of Christian counseling for managing relations, obligations, caring and abuse. Where religion commonly promotes unlimited demands on people, Cloud and Townsend show humane limits based on respect for both ourselves and others. And they firmly challenge any who feel it spiritual to blame the victim in cases of emotional abuse. On the way, they question many boundaries we draw in our lives, urging open consideration of what is actually helpful:
"Christians often have a warped way of looking at work. Unless someone is working 'in the ministry', they see his work as secular. However, this view of work distorts the biblical picture. All of us -- not only full-time ministers -- have gifts and talents that we contribute to humanity. We all have a vocation, a `calling' into service. Wherever we work, whatever we do, we are to do `unto the Lord'." (Colossians 3:23) (p. 194)
Enlightening, 25 Sep 2006
Having taken my time reading through this excellent book, I completed it feeling so much better for understanding some of the situations I have recently been faced with. So many of the examples and so much of the advice given, made me feel as though I was sitting in "the consulting room". I would highly recommend this book to anyone, whether they are under pressure or leading an "apparently" organised lifestyle - so much to be gained in implementing this guidance. Life changing, 29 Aug 2006
This is a life-changing book, and a classic. I thnk the main message of the book can be summarised very simply: I need to understand where my boundaries are; take responsibility for the things within my own boundaries; and allow other people to take responsibility for the things within their boundaries.
Several aspects of the book can be quite annoying.
* It is American, with the cultural assumptions and norms that this implies.
* It is very Christian, with many references to Biblical stories and providing chapter and verse references to most of the quotes. This is not a problem for me, but I suspect it will limit the accessibility of the book for prople who are not evangelical Christians, which is a pity because the content works whatevery you believe.
* The style is very repetitive and obvious: you hear about the experiencs of a person who is struggling with areas of their life, they get taught how to apply appropriate boundaries, and you then hear about how much better their life is now that they apply the principles we have taught them.
All of which is to say that the book grates on some people's nerves. But don't let this put you off: whatever the problems of culture and style, the content is relevant and vital. If you are not applying these principles, this book could be one of the most important you will ever read; and if you are, it will help you understand why your life is so much better than most of the people around you - and how to help them take control of their lives. A 'Must-Read', 14 May 2006
I can honestly say that this book has really changed my life. God was on my case about reading it for several months beforehand and once I had, it opened my eyes to things I that only heard about or guessed at but had not really known. Personally, I think that the principles within it should be incorporated into our school curriculums. There would, I believe, be much less miscommunication, crime and heartache if we learnt these things early on in life! I highly recommend it! a must-read!, 12 Mar 2006
An excellent book to read if you want to dramatically improve your relationships! A simply wonderful book, 15 Feb 2005
I received this book on my confirmation day (4th May 2000) and I can say with certainty that this is one of my favorite books relating to my faith. Every time I have ever felt in need, I have turned to this book and God has spoken to me through it. 100% of the time. Without doubt. Even when I felt as though I didn't deserve to receive divine guidance, He has guided me to the relevant page in the book, every time. No Christian bookshelf would be complete without this book.
Spiritually uplifting: God really is with each of us., 15 Oct 2001
The book is structured with an individual message on each page, a message from Jesus directly to the reader, albeit via the author. A verse from the bible is printed at the bottom of each page, relating to the message. There is a handy theme index a the end of the book, and a few blank pages for the readers own notes. A tribute inside the book says "I have never experienced such a closeness to Jesus". It is truly hard to read this book without feeling such closeness. Some messages will literally bring tears to your eyes. Tears of sorrow, when recognising neglect and failure, followed by tears of joy when realising how much we are unconditionally loved. The book is spiritually uplifting, inspirational, and a true gift of love to anyone who wants to be loved.
Lovely little pop-up cards which stand out from others. , 07 Oct 2008
Pros - I bought two lots of these cards for last Christmas (2007). There is one card for each letter of the alphabet, each with a pop-up white paper picture inside. These are very pretty indeed, particularly the one with a little Bethlehem style pop up of houses on a hill, the one with Pine Trees, and the one with a flying dove. They are sweet little cards and nice for a change, I received several compliments on them from people who I had sent them to. The cards come in a lovely sturdy navy blue tin with white snowflakes on it, which I am using to store other cards in now.
Cons - The cards are quite small and the envelopes look cheap and flimsy, not the quality I would have expected for these cards. A couple of the cards had pop ups which had not been trimmed properly and didn't pop up, so I had to trim and "free" parts, myself. The front of each card has a cut out image on, most of which are disappointing compared to the pop-up image inside.
I bought these in 2007 for £8 a tin which I feel was worth it, I don't think they are worth much more than that though.
SOUND TEACHING , 06 Sep 2008
"When I was going to prepare the message on stress, I asked the Lord to show me how He wanted me to present the material" J. Meyer
This book comes highly recommended from one of America's most famous authors.
This book can be taken to work with you or anywhere you go actually for it is small enough to fit in you handbag.
When you need encouragement from stress, discouragement, worried feelings
insecure feelings, alone feelings, depressed feelings, and fearful feelings. Whatever may come along to stop you in your tracks and molest your mind, tell the devil in a loud voice that he is a liar, pray to God who will deal with your particular situation This book is a good investment for the Father' s love, and answers on how to deal with the the negative forces that try to choke our lives. Bless agood friend with a gist of this book.
Reviewed by Heather Marshall Negahdar ( SUGAR-CANE 04/09/09 )
Uplifting, 12 Jan 2008
A beautifully presented book. Buy it for yourself as a "pick-me-up" in hard times or for some-one else who is going through a difficult time. When I was struggling, the "bite-sized" chunks on each page were just what I needed to help me cling to God and get through the day.
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Customer Reviews
good book, 17 Oct 2008
I was given this after my dad died i read it to my children it helped i have since given it to two sets of children and i think it helped them a little. I think it is a great book Pond Life, 23 Apr 2008
The pamphlet is well written and illustrated. Good for sharing with a young child. However, it was not very useful to me. The analogy is misleading and obviously based on an 'afterlife'. May appeal to some but not for those looking for a more straightforward, rational approach. A lovely story, and a very useful analogy., 18 Mar 2007
I'm reading this book to my 4-year old who's asking where Granddad has gone. It's a particularly useful analogy because of the 2 different environments lived in by the water bugs and the dragonfly, which explains why we can't go to see if Granddad is OK and neither can he come back to see us! It is a bit religious, but if you're OK with that, it's a great story. WATER BUGS AND DROGNFLIES, 10 Sep 2003
This book tells a sweet story of a water bug who leaves his old life behind to become a dragonfly in his new life. I did feel the story would only appeal to under 5-6 year olds as the story was fictional and did not give the reality of death. Beautifully illustrated, a lovely prayer at the end of the book with the option to put the name of the deceased in. This book would make a nice keepsake for a child to remember the loved one that died. Only helpful to VERY young kids with Christian beliefs., 05 Feb 2002
I found this very religious. The reading level was focused at VERY young children, but it was not appropriate to read the whole book to the child in my case as the Christian leaning of the end of the book was too strong for my liking. It was a bit of a waste of money! I'm glad someone thinks I'm wonderful, 29 Feb 2008
Agree with other reviewer. Ordered this two days ago as a gift for my friend's children. I took the time to read it through when it came and am reordering it now for another friend and her family. Wondering who else to buy it for because it would make a fab gift for many different friends and occasions. I'm a bit of a logical science girl and don't really do treacly, which it was slightly, but maybe that's what I need occasionally (yes, tears came to my eyes). It's not a 'story' as such, it's more of a 'meander through how God shows us that he thinks we're wonderful' with fab little illustrations. The book is beautifully presented and isn't just a children's book but is for anybody who wants to take the time and to hear what it's saying. I just hope it gets well used and well worn and doesn't now just sit on the shelf. That would be a real shame.
Just for info - I expected it to be bigger when it came. It's 13cm x 16cm so is quite pocket sized, but I expect perfect for little and bigger hands. This book is beautiful, 14 May 2004
This is the most special present you can buy for someone you love... it convays the deep love God has for us in a way that little children and adults alike can relate too. It is so sweet it made me cry. The pictures are childlike and inocent it is written with such gentleness... everyone should read it. Agree with Virginia Reader, 30 Jun 1999
Yes. This book was a great source of pre-marital questions and awnsers, but it did indeed have a hidden agenda. I too would not have purchased the book knowing that the entire last chapter was based on Christian principals and marriage. A MUST read for couples planning to marry!, 11 May 1999
This book is fabulous. My husband I read it as part of our pre-marital preparation, and we return to the principles taught in it frequently. It gives a solid look at relationships and the things that make a marriage tick. Having the perspectives of the two married authors gives this book an advantage over other pre-marital books because it accurately portrays both the male and female perspectives, emotions, and needs in a marriage. This book is a must read, whether you're just engaged or have been married for 10 years! An excellent counseling tool for dating or engaged couples!, 13 Mar 1999
This workbook, along with the main book, are excellent counseling tools for couples engaged or considering marriage. It is also excellent for couples that are already married. It is professionally done, and includes many exercises that help couples communicate their expectations about marriage and eliminate some problems before they begin. It is well worth the money. Practical, 08 Feb 1999
I just finished this book. I thought it was great! It contains very practical usefull information on 'real' realationships and how-to's. I did not however, as the title implies (saving your marriage BEFORE it starts), feel like most of the advise given was for pre-married people. As a Christian, some of the examples given, were not for someone in just a dating situation. I would love to read a book by the Parrotts that was exclusively for singles... One of the best pre-marriage books on the market!, 24 Jan 1999
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I highly recommend this book. My husband and I went through it together after being married less than a year and it was a GREAT resource and still is a great reminder of how to keep our marriage working well. I especially enjoyed the chapter on how to fight a good fight- because we ALL do it and need help in not damaging our relationships for the long haul in the process of working out our differences. I use this book (and the workbook) for many of the couples I counsel and find it hits most of the important areas and is an easy read. I actually think it has helpful information for most couples, not the only pre-married. Drawing a good line in religious life, 07 Jan 2008
A very kind, down-to-earth book - the best kind of Christian counseling for managing relations, obligations, caring and abuse. Where religion commonly promotes unlimited demands on people, Cloud and Townsend show humane limits based on respect for both ourselves and others. And they firmly challenge any who feel it spiritual to blame the victim in cases of emotional abuse. On the way, they question many boundaries we draw in our lives, urging open consideration of what is actually helpful:
"Christians often have a warped way of looking at work. Unless someone is working 'in the ministry', they see his work as secular. However, this view of work distorts the biblical picture. All of us -- not only full-time ministers -- have gifts and talents that we contribute to humanity. We all have a vocation, a `calling' into service. Wherever we work, whatever we do, we are to do `unto the Lord'." (Colossians 3:23) (p. 194)
Enlightening, 25 Sep 2006
Having taken my time reading through this excellent book, I completed it feeling so much better for understanding some of the situations I have recently been faced with. So many of the examples and so much of the advice given, made me feel as though I was sitting in "the consulting room". I would highly recommend this book to anyone, whether they are under pressure or leading an "apparently" organised lifestyle - so much to be gained in implementing this guidance. Life changing, 29 Aug 2006
This is a life-changing book, and a classic. I thnk the main message of the book can be summarised very simply: I need to understand where my boundaries are; take responsibility for the things within my own boundaries; and allow other people to take responsibility for the things within their boundaries.
Several aspects of the book can be quite annoying.
* It is American, with the cultural assumptions and norms that this implies.
* It is very Christian, with many references to Biblical stories and providing chapter and verse references to most of the quotes. This is not a problem for me, but I suspect it will limit the accessibility of the book for prople who are not evangelical Christians, which is a pity because the content works whatevery you believe.
* The style is very repetitive and obvious: you hear about the experiencs of a person who is struggling with areas of their life, they get taught how to apply appropriate boundaries, and you then hear about how much better their life is now that they apply the principles we have taught them.
All of which is to say that the book grates on some people's nerves. But don't let this put you off: whatever the problems of culture and style, the content is relevant and vital. If you are not applying these principles, this book could be one of the most important you will ever read; and if you are, it will help you understand why your life is so much better than most of the people around you - and how to help them take control of their lives. A 'Must-Read', 14 May 2006
I can honestly say that this book has really changed my life. God was on my case about reading it for several months beforehand and once I had, it opened my eyes to things I that only heard about or guessed at but had not really known. Personally, I think that the principles within it should be incorporated into our school curriculums. There would, I believe, be much less miscommunication, crime and heartache if we learnt these things early on in life! I highly recommend it! a must-read!, 12 Mar 2006
An excellent book to read if you want to dramatically improve your relationships! A simply wonderful book, 15 Feb 2005
I received this book on my confirmation day (4th May 2000) and I can say with certainty that this is one of my favorite books relating to my faith. Every time I have ever felt in need, I have turned to this book and God has spoken to me through it. 100% of the time. Without doubt. Even when I felt as though I didn't deserve to receive divine guidance, He has guided me to the relevant page in the book, every time. No Christian bookshelf would be complete without this book.
Spiritually uplifting: God really is with each of us., 15 Oct 2001
The book is structured with an individual message on each page, a message from Jesus directly to the reader, albeit via the author. A verse from the bible is printed at the bottom of each page, relating to the message. There is a handy theme index a the end of the book, and a few blank pages for the readers own notes. A tribute inside the book says "I have never experienced such a closeness to Jesus". It is truly hard to read this book without feeling such closeness. Some messages will literally bring tears to your eyes. Tears of sorrow, when recognising neglect and failure, followed by tears of joy when realising how much we are unconditionally loved. The book is spiritually uplifting, inspirational, and a true gift of love to anyone who wants to be loved.
Lovely little pop-up cards which stand out from others. , 07 Oct 2008
Pros - I bought two lots of these cards for last Christmas (2007). There is one card for each letter of the alphabet, each with a pop-up white paper picture inside. These are very pretty indeed, particularly the one with a little Bethlehem style pop up of houses on a hill, the one with Pine Trees, and the one with a flying dove. They are sweet little cards and nice for a change, I received several compliments on them from people who I had sent them to. The cards come in a lovely sturdy navy blue tin with white snowflakes on it, which I am using to store other cards in now.
Cons - The cards are quite small and the envelopes look cheap and flimsy, not the quality I would have expected for these cards. A couple of the cards had pop ups which had not been trimmed properly and didn't pop up, so I had to trim and "free" parts, myself. The front of each card has a cut out image on, most of which are disappointing compared to the pop-up image inside.
I bought these in 2007 for £8 a tin which I feel was worth it, I don't think they are worth much more than that though.
SOUND TEACHING , 06 Sep 2008
"When I was going to prepare the message on stress, I asked the Lord to show me how He wanted me to present the material" J. Meyer
This book comes highly recommended from one of America's most famous authors.
This book can be taken to work with you or anywhere you go actually for it is small enough to fit in you handbag.
When you need encouragement from stress, discouragement, worried feelings
insecure feelings, alone feelings, depressed feelings, and fearful feelings. Whatever may come along to stop you in your tracks and molest your mind, tell the devil in a loud voice that he is a liar, pray to God who will deal with your particular situation This book is a good investment for the Father' s love, and answers on how to deal with the the negative forces that try to choke our lives. Bless agood friend with a gist of this book.
Reviewed by Heather Marshall Negahdar ( SUGAR-CANE 04/09/09 )
Uplifting, 12 Jan 2008
A beautifully presented book. Buy it for yourself as a "pick-me-up" in hard times or for some-one else who is going through a difficult time. When I was struggling, the "bite-sized" chunks on each page were just what I needed to help me cling to God and get through the day.
An excellent, peaceful, thought-provoking book, 13 Jun 2001
I love this book. It has some wonderful quotations that are accentuated by well produced pieces of classic art. I found this book can really make you stop and think about what is important in life. Highly recommended.
Quotations to bring you down to earth, 15 Dec 2000
I bought this book as a Christmas gift and I enjoyed it so much that I'm going to order one for myself, and all my friends who would enjoy it also. Quotatations from across the ages, but all say the same thing, stop and look and listen sometimes.
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Customer Reviews
good book, 17 Oct 2008
I was given this after my dad died i read it to my children it helped i have since given it to two sets of children and i think it helped them a little. I think it is a great book
Pond Life, 23 Apr 2008
The pamphlet is well written and illustrated. Good for sharing with a young child. However, it was not very useful to me. The analogy is misleading and obviously based on an 'afterlife'. May appeal to some but not for those looking for a more straightforward, rational approach.
A lovely story, and a very useful analogy., 18 Mar 2007
I'm reading this book to my 4-year old who's asking where Granddad has gone. It's a particularly useful analogy because of the 2 different environments lived in by the water bugs and the dragonfly, which explains why we can't go to see if Granddad is OK and neither can he come back to see us! It is a bit religious, but if you're OK with that, it's a great story.
WATER BUGS AND DROGNFLIES, 10 Sep 2003
This book tells a sweet story of a water bug who leaves his old life behind to become a dragonfly in his new life. I did feel the story would only appeal to under 5-6 year olds as the story was fictional and did not give the reality of death. Beautifully illustrated, a lovely prayer at the end of the book with the option to put the name of the deceased in. This book would make a nice keepsake for a child to remember the loved one that died.
Only helpful to VERY young kids with Christian beliefs., 05 Feb 2002
I found this very religious. The reading level was focused at VERY young children, but it was not appropriate to read the whole book to the child in my case as the Christian leaning of the end of the book was too strong for my liking. It was a bit of a waste of money!
I'm glad someone thinks I'm wonderful, 29 Feb 2008
Agree with other reviewer. Ordered this two days ago as a gift for my friend's children. I took the time to read it through when it came and am reordering it now for another friend and her family. Wondering who else to buy it for because it would make a fab gift for many different friends and occasions. I'm a bit of a logical science girl and don't really do treacly, which it was slightly, but maybe that's what I need occasionally (yes, tears came to my eyes). It's not a 'story' as such, it's more of a 'meander through how God shows us that he thinks we're wonderful' with fab little illustrations. The book is beautifully presented and isn't just a children's book but is for anybody who wants to take the time and to hear what it's saying. I just hope it gets well used and well worn and doesn't now just sit on the shelf. That would be a real shame.
Just for info - I expected it to be bigger when it came. It's 13cm x 16cm so is quite pocket sized, but I expect perfect for little and bigger hands.
This book is beautiful, 14 May 2004
This is the most special present you can buy for someone you love... it convays the deep love God has for us in a way that little children and adults alike can relate too. It is so sweet it made me cry. The pictures are childlike and inocent it is written with such gentleness... everyone should read it.
Agree with Virginia Reader, 30 Jun 1999
Yes. This book was a great source of pre-marital questions and awnsers, but it did indeed have a hidden agenda. I too would not have purchased the book knowing that the entire last chapter was based on Christian principals and marriage.
A MUST read for couples planning to marry!, 11 May 1999
This book is fabulous. My husband I read it as part of our pre-marital preparation, and we return to the principles taught in it frequently. It gives a solid look at relationships and the things that make a marriage tick. Having the perspectives of the two married authors gives this book an advantage over other pre-marital books because it accurately portrays both the male and female perspectives, emotions, and needs in a marriage. This book is a must read, whether you're just engaged or have been married for 10 years!
An excellent counseling tool for dating or engaged couples!, 13 Mar 1999
This workbook, along with the main book, are excellent counseling tools for couples engaged or considering marriage. It is also excellent for couples that are already married. It is professionally done, and includes many exercises that help couples communicate their expectations about marriage and eliminate some problems before they begin. It is well worth the money.
Practical, 08 Feb 1999
I just finished this book. I thought it was great! It contains very practical usefull information on 'real' realationships and how-to's. I did not however, as the title implies (saving your marriage BEFORE it starts), feel like most of the advise given was for pre-married people. As a Christian, some of the examples given, were not for someone in just a dating situation. I would love to read a book by the Parrotts that was exclusively for singles...
One of the best pre-marriage books on the market!, 24 Jan 1999
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I highly recommend this book. My husband and I went through it together after being married less than a year and it was a GREAT resource and still is a great reminder of how to keep our marriage working well. I especially enjoyed the chapter on how to fight a good fight- because we ALL do it and need help in not damaging our relationships for the long haul in the process of working out our differences. I use this book (and the workbook) for many of the couples I counsel and find it hits most of the important areas and is an easy read. I actually think it has helpful information for most couples, not the only pre-married.
Drawing a good line in religious life, 07 Jan 2008
A very kind, down-to-earth book - the best kind of Christian counseling for managing relations, obligations, caring and abuse. Where religion commonly promotes unlimited demands on people, Cloud and Townsend show humane limits based on respect for both ourselves and others. And they firmly challenge any who feel it spiritual to blame the victim in cases of emotional abuse. On the way, they question many boundaries we draw in our lives, urging open consideration of what is actually helpful:
"Christians often have a warped way of looking at work. Unless someone is working 'in the ministry', they see his work as secular. However, this view of work distorts the biblical picture. All of us -- not only full-time ministers -- have gifts and talents that we contribute to humanity. We all have a vocation, a `calling' into service. Wherever we work, whatever we do, we are to do `unto the Lord'." (Colossians 3:23) (p. 194)
Enlightening, 25 Sep 2006
Having taken my time reading through this excellent book, I completed it feeling so much better for understanding some of the situations I have recently been faced with. So many of the examples and so much of the advice given, made me feel as though I was sitting in "the consulting room". I would highly recommend this book to anyone, whether they are under pressure or leading an "apparently" organised lifestyle - so much to be gained in implementing this guidance.
Life changing, 29 Aug 2006
This is a life-changing book, and a classic. I thnk the main message of the book can be summarised very simply: I need to understand where my boundaries are; take responsibility for the things within my own boundaries; and allow other people to take responsibility for the things within their boundaries.
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